Hello lovely ladies of reddit, and the weirdly high proportion of "Doms" who either can't or won't read. I'm looking for a take charge type woman for a female led relationship. Think golden retriever energy that benefits from being channeled by a guiding hand.

Vanilla me:

I love to cook, mostly an eclectic mix of Inian and East African food, but also comfort food on (maybe slightly too frequent) occasion. I also love to travel and have made it to four continents so far. Egypt has been my favourite destination thus far but I'd love to hear your suggestions. I also love history and linguistics, unfortunately whilst I can hold a basic conversation in a few languages the only one I'm fluent in is English. The hobby I spend the most time on is tabletop gaming, Warhammer and D&D mostly, but I'm also not completely terrible at chess.

I work in regulatory affairs/food safety which varies wildly from day to day but that keeps it interesting. It's also keeps giving me opportunities to learn new things which is important to me.

Physically I'm 5'10 with brown hair and dark features. I currently (and usually) wear a beard but do go clean shaven on occasion. I'm thicker set but do like to work out fairly often.

Kinky me:

And now for the reason this ad is here specifically: kinks. I'm a natural people pleaser so following instructions in daily life together gives a certain level of fulfilment. Service oriented submission with plenty of praise and positive reinforcement is ideal. My main love language is physical touch so someone tactile. Afterall who doesn't want their head massaged in someone's lap?

On the more physical side I like bondage, begging, blindfolds, gags, light vebal humiliation, orgasm control, pegging, collars and much more. To be honest though the most important part for me is pleasing my partner, I'm very much a good boy.

My limits are the usual, nothing permanent, no scat, no blood, not into extreme pain. I've also got no interest in feminisation or cuckoldry.

If any of that has caught your fancy or you'd like to know more, please send a chat or a message