I’ll keep this short and sweet.

Me: 33, 6’3 tall, white, fit and conventionally attractive (or so I’m told!). I’m an attorney living and working in Manhattan. I like photography, travelling, cooking, reading and rock climbing (thus far strictly indoors, but perhaps one day the real deal).

Kink-wise: I’m a dom who enjoys a combination of affection and firm control. You could say I’m “Daddy”ish. I am looking for a 24/7 dynamic in which I take the lead in our relationship, both in and out of the bedroom. Mutual respect, upholding boundaries and open discussion are very important to me, especially because I am also a sadist and being ethical about that is critical. I enjoy free use, spanking and domestic discipline, setting rules for behavior and holding you to them, generally being rough, pain and light race play. I am happy to talk more about this when we chat.

You: Conventionally attractive, smart, giving and people pleasing by nature, with some goal or ambition you’re dreaming of or working towards. Strictly monogamous and looking for a romantic relationship. And it would help if you had a thing for white men, as a general preference.

What I’m looking for: I’m looking for a romantic relationship and 24/7 power dynamic. I’d very much enjoy helping guide you and lifting you up to achieve what you want in your life. I’d ask for your obedience and loyalty (and genera deviancy) in return. If and when we are ready, I’d like you to move in to my place (I own my own by a combination of privilege and hard work): I would not expect you to pay rent unless you want to, nor am I looking for a housemaid or cleaner. It’s just a way to help you, build intimacy, and makes D/s dynamics much more invasive and intense, all of which I enjoy.

If this sounds at all interesting to you, please send me a chat. Bonus points if you’re comfortable including a photo with your message. Until I know you a bit better, please understand that I will be a little private/cautious because of my career and will ask for your discretion. I will, of course, also respect your privacy. Chat soon!