Heyooooo! My names Nate, I've been interested in BDSM and kink for a long time now, done my fair share of research and I'm fairly confident in what I like, but unfortunately I haven't been able to get much hands on experience. I haven't had any good chances to check out my local munch group because of my work schedule, but I'm dying to have somebody actually act as my dom. There's only so much that fantasizing and playing alone can do for a person.
I'd say I interested in a dom who can balance mean and nice well, I've got a strong love of praise and degradation mixed up into one. I'd need someone who I can trust to take the lead, and put me in my place. I want to be given orders, given the space to let go and focus solely on pleasing someone else.
For me BDSM is a nice blend of sexual and non-sexual. I love the sexual aspects, but I also find the idea of submitting to somebody else and letting them take the lead therapeutic, a way to get work through some of the stress and anxiety I deal with on a regular basis. I'm also a trans man, as the title says (pre-op if that's really important) and in a lot of ways kink is affirming for me. Being a good boy (or potentially a good puppy, that's something new I'm exploring) is one of the best feelings for me.
I'm happy to discuss specific kinks and limits if anybody might be interested in helping me get some experience having an actual Dom. My DMs are open to anybody who wants to see if we could be compatible!
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