TLDR: say nice things to me and I’ll do anything you want

Hi! My name is Ren (nickname) and I’m a 19 y/o trans guy who really wants to get more BDSM in an online environment. I’m 3ish years on test. and a year post top surgery.

I’m super interested in the idea of having a long-term dom online. I’m gay, so generally more interested in men, but I’m down to sub for either gender. I’m pretty new to this, so ideally I’d prefer to start a bit slow, but eventually I’m down for almost anything, and a big turn on for me is a dom getting off on what they’re doing to me, whether or not it’s something I personally enjoy. I also love the idea of being submissive with another person either for a dom or not.

I’m submissive in literally everything sex related but I’m also interested in carrying it over to real life a bit, like telling me how to dress, setting rules for me, etc. My biggest kinks are praise, degradation, exhibitionism, spanking, humiliation, power play, and basically anything that involves giving up control.

What I’m looking for in a dom is kind of a mix between a pleasure/soft dom and something borderline sadistic, which is probably pretty contradicting. What I see in my head as being most enjoyable for me is someone who is gentle and not crazy levels of strict at first, and not having the focus being 100% on me serving or obeying them, but also into going into more degrading and hardcore stuff after trust is built. I ADORE following commands/behaving/doing what people want from me, but when it’s most enjoyable for me is when I’m getting praised and sweet talked for doing it rather than the person just barking the next thing out. This is basically the equivalent of building an imaginary boyfriend though lol, and in reality I’m open to more of a variety of things and personalities.

I’m down for text play off the bat as well as pics and videos (minus face for now), although, fair warning, I’m shit at taking them so you’ll have to give me pretty clear direction on what you want. I also like the idea of eventually getting into doing stuff over a voice call or being live on video at some point, but I’d take a bit to become comfortable enough (same with face pics). Also down to eventually meet irl if it’s a legit long term thing.

I’ve got some pictures of my body on my profile (again, not particularly good ones lol). If any of this matches what you’re into or you’re at all interested, feel free to dm me!