hi everyone!

i’m looking for someone to play with me and control me on my down time 😋

i’m 33 and work full time and keep a pretty busy schedule with my friends and various dating partners. on the occasional nights and weekends when i have free time it’s important to me to set aside time to engage in my hobbies, like painting and drawing and reading and self-care activities like giving myself a manicure and pedicure, etc. and i’d love nothing more during that time for someone to give me a set of rules to follow (how when and where to touch myself, what toys to play with, when to focus on my task vs space out and edge etc., open to your creative ideas) and dictate what to wear (nothing but heels and a plug and clamps, bra and panties and mini skirt, t-shirt and thigh high socks, etc., again, your choice 😇) and edge me and tease me and keep me company. light humiliation and reminders of my place get me really wet 🤭

i love nothing more than being obedient and being played with. i love call and response, creative tasks, following established protocols, being told to listen to mantras, watch certain videos, etc. etc. i just want to be properly controlled and used and teased and deprived and punished and rewarded, you know? i’m the most obedient and enthusiastic, i can promise you that. logistically, i’d like to have planned/scheduled sessions with someone, repeatedly, sharing schedules and planning a couple sessions in advance. hopefully this can be on a recurring basis and you and i can form a relationship and grow into it with each other. i want to make you happy and be a 🦋 good slut 🦋 for you, and i also want you to help me continue to learn more about bdsm and my own kinks and experience the thrill of being controlled by someone ☺️

kinks: i like being told to wear plugs/clamps/not being able to touch myself/doing tasks before i’m allowed to cum or even just touch myself. generally being controlled, denied, call and response, having to earn my rights, that kind of thing. i really like domestic servitude/bimbofication/mysoginistic or beta narratives, and i like being rewarded for being slutty. i have a lot of fantasies involving slave positions, conditioning and rules, depravation and denial, punishment for incomplete tasks, being rented out to whomever you decide, etc.

limits: extreme pain, blood, water sports, scat, blood, impregnating, hard impact and lasting marks like bruises

me: i’m 5’8 with brown wavy hair (and bangs!) and glasses and brown eyes. i’m happy to share face and body pics (and be on voice or video calls) once we get close and form some trust. i’m very pretty and also cute and definitely curvy (220 lbs, maybe? idk who weighs themselves anymore?) and successful and extremely confident and smart and funny and pansexual and non-monogamous.

you: should be kind and consent/aftercare-focused, enthusiastic and strict and creative, open minded and understanding, mean and playful, very attentive. and within a couple hours of the EST zone so scheduling works out

please dm me if you’re interested and think we’d be a good fit!! i’m really excited to hear from you and i hope you have a good day 🥰