57 [M4F] #Australia - Dom seeking sub

Looking to find a submissive I can share the rest of my life with. I’m looking for someone that I can connect with intellectually and who enjoys the same things as I do outside of our sexual dynamic. I’m coming out of a long vanilla marriage. We were always two different people but the stress of raising two beautiful daughters with our different mindsets ultimately drove us apart. I have very left leaning values, and believe in networks and social support. Some people see that as a weakness in an individual, however it seems to me that what this world needs more than anything now is moral courage from every single one of us. It’s easy to be greedy; much harder to share. In an environment full of rage and physical violence we need people who can say no, despite threats from power, and can stop the exploitation of workers, animals and/or the environment.

But enough moralising. I’ve recently pulled back from a professional career to transition into retirement. I’m 6’ 4”, blonde and blue-eyed, with nothing small about me. I’m also fat and unfit, and probably mildly depressed from doom scrolling the news as I dealt with the daily stress of a sexless and unappreciated existence faced alone in a sterile office. I am an educated man qualified as a graphic designer, knowledge manager and cognitive psychologist, and I use those skills now to help me find satisfaction in my life, whether that be by drawing, cooking or managing my way back to physical well-being through diet and exercise.

I consider being a Dominant to be a service-oriented mindset. Yes, I get to fuck you how and when I want, but I earn that right. I was addicted to Dominance from my first taste because it took me out of my head and put me into yours. It’s why orgasm control is my kink, with every other being a servant to that goal. Yes, I will be spanking you, and I will be tying you up, and I will talking dirty to you while I make you display the panties I bought you. You will have rules and boundaries that we will negotiate together, and you will find me very strict on enforcing those for your own good. I am not good with brats because I will expect instant obedience and that your tasks are completed promptly and with care and diligence. In return you will be well nourished, cared for and cherished.

You should enjoy being outdoors, and have an affinity for being on or near the water. If you enjoy sailing and an adventure then we will be very compatible. You should also have a curiosity about seeing the world and visiting other cultures. You would be willing to volunteer a helping hand when it’s needed. I am not interested in a physical type, age or ethnicity; it is your mind and mentality that matters most to me.

If any of this piques your curiosity please say hello and tell me a little about yourself to start a conversation…