Hi this is going to be a bit of a long post but I figure may as well give as much info as I can so no one’s time gets wasted finding out we’re incompatible.

A little about me, I’m a 32F from NY with a sassy, sarcastic sense of humor. My main job has me working in healthcare and absolutely love it. I’m a big animal lover, I currently own 3 horses and a dog and am actively working on getting back in the gym so that I can get back in shape and return to showing and riding on a more regular basis. I also work at a thoroughbred farm. I work with the foals, ask me about them I can gush over how cute they are and how proud I am of previous babies that are now at the track for hours. I’ve heard the “horse girl” thing is a 🚩 🚩 so do what you will with that information.

I have other hobbies and interests outside of the horses but I will admit they’re my primary passion. I enjoy working with my dog, cooking and baking, reading, 4-wheeling, watching anime, watching TV, and singing way too loudly in the car. Full disclosure I am also a single mother and while that’s not my whole personality it is an important part of who I am so I 100% understand if that’s not your thing.

Appearance wise I’m 5’8” and curvy. I’m working more on functional strength than anything else right now to get back into riding however even in great shape I’m never going to be petite. Hazel eyes and my hair is currently an auburn color though I color it pretty frequently and I’m seriously considering red and black next. I have a few tattoos and want more in the future. I’m happy to exchange pictures if you’d like.

As far as what I’m looking for I’m not interested in being a dirty little secret so if you’re married and unhappy I’m not interested and I’d like to find someone around my age 30ish-45ish. Communication is important, ideally I’d like to find someone interested in developing a longer term relationship. I just ask that you be adult enough to communicate when the conversation has run its course or you’re not feeling it anymore, no one likes the feeling of being ghosted. Ultimately I’m looking for a connection whether it’s just friendship or maybe something more, though I’ll admit I’m a little skeptical about finding that on Reddit but I’m ever the optimist. Look aren’t super important if the connection is there though I’m a sucker for a man with tattoos. I’m looking for someone that gets to know me and my quirky weirdness and thinks “that’s my girl” instead of “I wish you were different”. I’m okay with something completely online or if you’re closer I’d love to meet up eventually. I am not able to relocate at this time so if that’s a dealbreaker I understand.

As far as NSFW stuff I’ve been involved in the BDSM world for about 10 years and have a pretty good idea of what I like and am comfortable with. I have a list of kinks and limits we can discuss. I wouldn’t say I’m particularly bratty, I’m not willfully defiant, but my natural humor and sarcasm do color my behavior sometimes so depending on your definition of bratty I might fall into that. I’m looking for a Dominant that allows me to feel like I can give up control and be a safe space for me to be a sassy good girl. Because I do want to be good and submission is a part of who I am. That being said I’m not interested in a 24/7 TPE dynamic. Between my jobs and kid I don’t have the capacity for that. The submissive mindset is always kind of there but I don’t want someone trying to control every aspect of my life. I also want to get to know you as a person. I’m a talkative person (if you couldn’t tell) and I want to be able to shoot the shit with you and build a foundation outside of the spicy stuff.

I could keep going but I’ll cut it off here. If you’ve made it this far thank you, if you want to chat let me know what your favorite song to sing in the car is!