Hey there! Thank you for stopping in and reading my post. You either read the title and said "Thats exactly what I am looking for" or "Wow, I've always wanted to explore that kind of a relationship". Either way, I am glad you are here and I am happy to chat. Whether you are an experienced sub, or looking to explore for the very first time. I love teaching someone new to the dom/sub dynamic and helping them find the things that they like as well as the things they dont.

Dont get me wrong, I am not just looking for a dom/sub relationship. I want something deeper and meaningful. I want to get to know you as a person and have plenty of casual chat about our day while we slip between casual and dom/sub space. I dont just want your submission, I want it all, your heart, body, and mind.

I dont expect, nor will I ask you to submit right away. I want to spend time getting to know each other, just like any other relationship and see how we vibe and how we connect and go from there.

For those of you new to this lifestyle, its not all whips and chains and latex. In fact I'm not into most of that stuff anyway, but thats something we can discuss later on.

There is much more to me than the dom side and I want to let you get to know all sides of me. MY 3 biggest passions are music, sports, and traveling.

Otherwise, I'm 40, married, no kids and mostly looking for an 8-5 type thing, though sometimes I get a little time in the evening. Hoping to find someone to be my special little secret.

edit: I want to add that a mutual attraction is important to me, so I am not looking for a bbw at this time, but I dont mind some curves.

If this catches your interest, send me a message and lets chat!