I'm a Portland-based Dom/Daddy type person, serious about BDSM and avuncular and lighthearted about everything else. I want to get to know you, I want to be able to carry on a conversation, as well as use and/or abuse you. I want to be able to talk about movies and TV (I watch far too much TV), books, and the news; or listen. I love getting to know people, and think I make a good listener.
You are someone who knows your limits, or is willing to learn and explore. This isn't role play, if I order you to do something, I expect you will do it, and be turned on at the thought of proving that you did. You want to get to know each other before we play, compatibility matters. You have a life (even a relationship) and want something extra. We aren't expecting to be each other's everything.
Put the name of your favorite song in the title, so I know you read this. I expect you to verify within the first 48 hours, and am happy to do the same. Let's just get that out of the way as soon as we can, shall we?
I am 5' 10", blue eyes, dadbod (let's be polite and call it that), dad hair (is there such a thing as dad hair? Let's pretend there is), poly, mildly disabled, and deeply nerdy (in profession and personality).
I am not really looking for online. I would prefer someone who is local to the greater Portland, OR area — or at least visits regularly. Sharing pictures and other ways to turn each other on when we aren't together is important to me, so please be ok with that before you respond. Please introduce yourself when you message me.
To get a taste of what I can be like, here are a couple of lightly fictionalized versions of things I have done:
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