So took a bit of a hiatus from the whole Fetish and kink dating scene. Had a birthday so now I am officially out of my 20's and into my 30s. New decade, same me :P

So as you have read, I am based out Central NJ, but open to the New York City ( NYC ), Philadelphia ( Philly ), and anywhere that is within a reasonable amount of driving, I will let you be the judge of what is reasonable. I am straight, of Korean and Chinese descent, 5'10", and on the rounder end, but working out and diet is helping :P. I have a full time job but I work remote, so I have a good amount of free time on my hands. Do I have a place of my own, just do not expect to be invited to play on the first couple sessions until ample amount of trust is built up. My main Kink interest are around impact play, bondage, and sensory deprivation and overloading, but I also enjoy anything that involves a bit of power exchanging, humiliation, and deprivation. I also have a huge soft spot for public play with toys or rope under clothing. Toys are on my profile.

In terms of what I am looking for, I am looking someone with similar interest and a sexual drive as active as mine that I can share fetish and kink moments and experiences with. No height requirement, and so long as you are legally of age and not old enough to be my mother. That said, I am looking for someone that is of healthy weight for their age and height, as this will allow for more ample bondage positions and poses. Also disease free. I want to have a discreet partnership between me and my bottom, and hope my partner would prefer the same. I am mostly looking for a play partner, but long term is an option if we are compatible. She is preferably also interested in trying new things, and is open to contributing to different ideas for play. For obvious reasons, everything we do or plan will involve both of our consent.

While I am open to online play, it would be with the stipulation that there is some form of media sharing on a regular basis after the foundation has been set. In any case, please be willing to share a SFW pic, NSFW are also acceptable but not expected. :3

Hard Limits are anything involving nonconsensual actions, blood, diseases, animals, children, permanent mutilation and scarring, sharp objects, shit, and anything else that would require or lead to hospitalization. Anything not mentioned has either been not tried and tested, or is acceptable.

Let me know if you are interested, stay safe, and have fun.