I'm here to find awesome, like-minded, dominant people. If the vibe is right, a relationship would be neat, but I'm not in a rush; let's get to know each other first and just see where it goes! I put quite a bit of effort into detailing who I am, so anyone can get a good impression. I'll answer every message, so don't be shy. c:
Who am I?
My interests are: music (current top 30: https://imgur.com/a/kQUrCEY ), philosophy, minimalism, non-conformity, drums, fitness, literature, longboard, food, gaming (digital&tabletop), Magic: The Gathering. I also have a watchlist with a number of movies on it that exceed the amount I've watched so far tenfold, so there are always weird movies to watch together.
Describing my appearance is always hard for me since I struggle with labels. Have some pictures instead. https://imgur.com/a/VBKOpkbI asked friends, and they used the following words: grunge; alternative (but minimalist); skater.Currently, I have quite long hair, a short sidecut, a short beard, and black nail polish. I'm quite skinny with enough abs to qualify as "fit", as I try to work out almost every day.
I am honest, open-minded, down to earth, calm, and nonconforming. Usually quite talkative, and love to explore thoughts and ideas others have, discussing various serious and not-so-serious topics, although not a big fan of small talk. Social awkwardness is sometimes my superpower, but once the initial "what-am-I-doing"-phase is over, I'm very much a funny, talkative guy who enjoys spending time with lovely people. Oh, and I love cuddling if the vibe is right. c:
Whats attractive to me:
People who are trying to be themselves, who question norms and tend to think critically, people who laugh a lot, and are able to be both serious and silly, depending on what the situation calls for. People with strong values and open minds. People who see the small beauty in the world and don't mind sharing it with someone who struggles to do so. A similar taste in music would be nice, a bit of nerdiness doesn't hurt either. :)Humans are visually attractive to me if they do their own thing. A smile does a lot, as does paying attention to visual appearance. A distinct style is a plus, but honestly, attraction for me is mainly based on the personality; good looks won't hide hideous traits.
Kink-stuff:
I'd like to preface this by saying that despite my quite detailed list of kinks, I don't view each and every single kink as a necessary requirement, more so as a list of things I'd be up to with mutual agreement. As long as you're interested in me as a person, being decidedly dominant in bed is the only โkinky" thing I truly long for.
My (current) kinks:
armpit worship, (light) ballbusting, chastity, cowgirl, creampie cleanup, cum, degradation, domination, edging, exhibitionism, feet, foot worship, grinding, humiliation, orgasm control, public, rimming, scent, self facial, sniffing smelly socks sneakers, spitting, swallowing cum, sweat, teasing, verbal humiliation and degradation, watersports
Curious:
post-orgasm torture/riding, strap-ons
Hard-Limits:
24/7 / TPE (doesn't include not cumming), permanent appearance change, cigarettes, vomit, extreme pain, needles, blood, sounding, ageplay, sleep control, findom (don't try to sell me shit; I'm looking to have a good time with someone, and going bankrupt doesn't seem like a good time).
If any of this sounds like someone you'd enjoy, feel free to hit me up! c: I look forward to seeing what comes from this. Also, please don't fake or ghost people; its a waste of time for both parties.
Regards Yannik c:
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