I desire power and control over you. But not the type that comes from being the big, mean Dom on the internet. It's subtle and slow. At first it is the mystery and intrigue about who I am. You give a little and you follow my lead. Then you realize while at work you're thinking about what I said earlier and you find your self turned on and it stays with you throughout the afternoon. The soft, slight tingle between your legs that leaves you excited to get home.

I may come across as confident or perhaps arrogant even. Who could possibly believe that they could turn a woman on enough that she would stay wet all afternoon. Or even that they could train a woman to cum on command with no warm up or even touching. It sounds absurd on the surface, but I'm looking for the type of woman who is willing to step into the arena and play.

As an aside, I love the Theodore Roosevelt speech "The Man in the Arena". It speaks to what is the way we should interact with each other. Giving deference to the man or woman who steps into the arena and takes up a task or purpose.

And that's what I'm looking for today. Someone who is enthusiastic and engaged. That's not to say you are a "yes" woman. You should certainly say when something isn't working for you. It's being engaged in the process of building a dynamic where you give up control for deeper connection to the world around you and your self.

It's hard to know exactly who you are. You're probably 30 . Maybe you're married or single. Have kids or not. But there's a space that you're looking to fill. Something you're trying to find and get out of life. I enjoy the sexual tension, I enjoy the exploration, but more importantly I enjoy hearing that I've had an impact. Maybe you feel more focused and connected to friends and family. Maybe you are more connected to the importance of your work. Maybe you just enjoy being a little turned on and wet as you go about your day. The good that we create in ourselves and those around us makes it possible for the world to be just a little bit better place for all of us.

Kinks I particularly enjoy: power exchange, clit spanking, anal, semi-public play, orgasm control and denial, edging, spanking, humiliation, degradation, objectification, D/s.

As you drink your morning coffee, consider me a White Rabbit with a pocket watch. Follow me down the rabbit hole and let's see where we end up.

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