Who am I: I'm a 30 year old male, living in London. I have a good white collar career, own my home, with no kids. I keep myself physically fit, enjoy weightlifting and hit the gym most mornings, but personality wise I'm a total geek. 5'9", White, With a stocky, muscular build - broad shoulders, neither fat or very lean.

What I'm Looking For: A long term sexual partner, either in the form of a FWB, or a relationship. Open to it just being fun or an emotional connection. Must have compatible kinks. Happy to discuss an online dynamic, but also looking for in person. Must be willing to share a SFW face picture fairly early into the discussion, and confirm they are that person, (and of course I will do the same).

My Kinks: My primary interest is domination and submission and I am looking for a regular submissive. I have a decade's worth of BDSM experience now and I'm a calm, emotionally mature dominant. For me a dom/sub partnership is more of an emotional state, a dynamic, than it is just a list of kinks. A good dom/sub relationship can be subtle as well as involving all the toys, and I want someone interested in talking about and exploring the psychological side of submission. I am looking to explore and experience the intense emotional headspace of a dom/sub dynamic.

A long term goal would be a TPE dynamic, or close to it, but this would need time to build trust between us. If I could describe my ideal kink dynamic it is a mixture of control on my part and eager submission on yours. I am looking for a submissive that is eager to please and serve a responsible dominant, and thus don't get on well with "brat" partners.

I am looking for a partner who is eager for the opportunity to serve rather than resistant. I enjoy giving discipline, and either a degradation or praise focus depending on partner preference (or both!) I love restraints, edging my partner, orgasm denial, and cnc. I have a strong domestication and TPE relationship fetish, and would love to extend aspects of service outside of the bedroom. If your ideal kink dynamic is the opportunity to spend the evening worshipping and pleasing your partner in a more traditionally themed dynamic, then we'll be ideal.

More exotic kinks - Petplay, Ageplay, Manhandling and very rough sex (I don't lift all these weights to not throw you around if you want me to), blindfolds/sensory deprivation, breeding. My key dynamic revolves around exchange of power and service, but if you are also a masochist, I'm more than happy for more serious sadistic pain sessions, marking, caning, etc.

Gender Preference: I have listed myself as M4F as my primary interest. However I am open to male, trans and gender non conforming partners. I think of my sexual preference as less on a Male-Female spectrum and more in terms of Dominant vs Submissive. So any partner who is in the submissive role is likely to be my type, however I'm not interested in very masculine presenting bodies. If you want to work play around gender/orientation into our dom/sub dynamic, more than happy to discuss.

Personality Preference: Age 18-35, but preferably younger than I am. Able to handle situations with maturity, and generally is easy going and unlikely to cause drama. Is emotionally available, and eager to build an emotional connection with someone and make them happy. Thoughtful and likes to have deep conversations about ideas. Ideally enjoys art, literature/culture, but personality fit is the most important.

Kinks I Don't Get On Well With: Brats - Sorry Brats, but my life is busy enough without wanting to deal with drama in my sexual fun, if anything my ideal is the exact opposite. Anyone obsessed with a particular body part beyond all else - Sorry foot people, or (insert body part here people), you're usually so into it you can't have a normal chat without asking to see my feet! The usual gross kinks. - No. Online Limitations - I've really enjoyed online kink dynamics but it does require at some point (after we have established trust) a willingness to do things like send NSFW pictures or video calls. If this is a permanent hard boundary it is probably too limiting for what I am looking for. Happy to discuss limits when we discuss the relationship.

Well that's me. Experienced emotionally mature 30 year old dominant, seeks his eager to serve submissive with power exchange fantasies. Hope I find you!