Although I've been transitioning for several years and pass for a cis girl most of the time, in many ways I'm still who I was before. I often dress in women's jeans and men's t-shirts, I often take initiative and commandeer the conversation, I often feel more at ease with guys than with other girls.

And yet: the idea of being groomed, even coaxed out of all of that, is so tantalizing. Assuming a personality, a fashion style, habits and interests that are not mine, traits so feminine that most women wouldn't feel obligated to assume them. Frailty, daintiness, softness, fawning, dependence. Bows, flowers, dresses, delicate gestures, a willingness to always come second. Becoming hyperfeminine, against my own nature and to everybody's shock. Humiliating myself, even.

I'd like to find a partner who can lead me by the hand (or by the neck) into this new aesthetic and lifestyle. You will dictate how I am to act and dress; you will pick things for me to buy and wear, and you will take pleasure in my discomfort.

The latter can come in two degrees: either it's just the discomfort of rapidly changing into what I'm not, or else it's an engineered discomfort, choices made to humiliate. I'm not a fan of sluttiness for it's own sake, but there's so many ways to couple femininity and humiliation: think making me assume an age-inappropriate personality, or making me go out insanely overdressed (bride's outfit to the bus stop? Victorian dress? Ball gown?), or just turning the tropes of girliness up to a ridiculous 12.

I'll let your imagination work from there. We'll discuss it further over reddit chat. Other kinks I adore: petplay, free use, cnc, some toilet stuff. General conditioning and training, humiliation, wardrobe control, age regression, costumes...

If this is up, then I'm still looking!