Did I get your attention? Good. Now let me tell you a story..
I knock on the door and you open it. You look into my eyes, grab me by the hand and pull me inside as you close the door. Neither of us say a word. We both know why we're there. I immediately push you up against the wall so you have no way of escape. You're excited at the thought of what I have in store for you. I grab you by your hair and pull up your dress. I slide my hand all the way up your thigh. I part your lips with my finger and smile as I feel your warmth and wetness. I then slide my fingers in your mouth so you can taste the sweetness. I kiss you softly and longingly so I can taste it as well.
Then without a word I rip your panties off and shove them in your mouth. I put you hands together and tie you up with my belt. You fight a little and try to say something but I'm rough with you. I shove your panties down your mouth even further. Almost making you gag. I give you a look of desire that you've never seen before. Animal like and intense. My smile is gone and my eyes tell you I will devour you. I then decide to blindfold you and I pull your hair to show you who's boss. Not too rough but rough enough to show you I'm in control and could hurt you if you wanted. Then I turn you around and start licking your pussy. Teasingly just enough to make sure you're wet and ready for my thick uncut cock to penetrate you. I can tell you want me by your quivering body and dripping wetness. Then all of a sudden I push you up against the back of the chair and slide my rock hard cock into you. Rough and animal like. Never saying a single word. With every thrust you feel me deep inside your body. Never having felt so much raw power between your legs.
That is one side of you. But there is another side. I am going to describe that girl to you. She is sitting in a man's lap, having her hair brushed, and she is very happy. She is being picked up at the airport-- dropping her bags she runs and leaps into the arm's of a man, who twirls her around. She is slowly stripping out of her clothes, and the hunger in her man's eyes makes her blush. She can't stop thinking about him. She is addicted to him, craves affection, cherishes his attention. I want that girl. I want to find an eager, submissive girl, and I want to awaken her need, her desperation, her addiction. Still with me? ;) Good girl.
Public me: For the outside world I'm successful, reserved, well liked and have my life together. Married and not looking to change my relationship status. I'm 35 years old, 6'3'', fit but not jacked, attended top undergraduate and graduate schools, well traveled, speak 4 languages, and have a range of eclectic interests. I've had past vanilla girlfriends and a large circle of friends who just know me as exactly I've described above.

Private me: In the bedroom, I enjoy control and I take over. I'm sadistic, rough, somewhat manipulative, demanding and unpredictable. Beyond the physical, I crave having someone to mold and make better. I want someone to use and control yes, but I also want someone whom I can help improve; to help her achieve her goals, set timelines, establish objectives and administer punishments if not met.
There's the public you: Bubbly, cheerful, well educated, intelligent, on the path towards a great career or degree, you have good friends, a loving family, a leader, a feminist and for all intents and purposes a well put together strong woman.
The private you: No one would guess what goes on inside your mind. You find yourself in a state of turmoil or indecision. There's an emptiness. You feel a deep need to let go. There's dark thoughts, sometimes you can't understand them. But you recognize your urges, your need. You want a firm hand to grab the metaphorical leash around your neck and lead you. you want to give up control, you want to be told what to wear, you want to used... above all else you want to please.
Why am I doing this? Two reasons: a) connection and b) stress relief. I lead a busy high stress life and I find having a place to express my sadistic side is a wonderful source of stress relief. If the idea of being a human stressball is appealing to you, you move to the front of the line.
How do we proceed: We get to know each other and then move to Skype / Google Hangouts. I find myself attracted to girls who are in shape or actively working towards getting in shape. Open to all races and ethnicities. Drop me a note with your age, location/timezone, a short description of yourself and the name of the last book you read and we can go from there.
I look forward to getting to know you.