My life is changing and I want to share it with someone with the same values and goals. I’m winding down to full retirement now and exploring the things that a professional career and family meant having to postpone. So I’m on a ten year plan; exploring the world is part of that, both culturally and environmentally. I’m getting back my fitness after being desk bound for decades, and expanding the activities that bring joy into my life, such as cooking, drawing, reading, hiking and sailing. Just getting outdoors and enjoying good food and good company.

Indoors I am a Dominant man, 6’ 4”, blonde, blue eyed and I trust a creative, imaginative lover with a dry sense of humour. My major kinks are, in order, orgasm control, orgasm control and orgasm control. I love edging and will use spanking, binding, and dirty talk as tools to keep you begging for release. I also have a bit of a panty fetish, so dressing you in lingerie is like wrapping up a present that is to be enjoyed slowly and fully.

I’m not looking for any particular ‘image’, be that size, shape, age, ethnicity, or religion. I am agnostic and think fundamental zealotry in any form is abhorrent but respect the values of helping your fellow man, animal or environment. I am definitely left-leaning politically, so hard conservatives are not my cup of tea, although I share some ‘family values’ and responsibilities with old school conservatives. I do a companion though that is fit enough to enjoy a multi-day hike, or heave on some lines when on the ocean.

I think I fit more of the Daddy Dom mould. Caring, but strict. Boundaries in the bedroom, but partners in the real world. You would be looked after, fed, cared for and be a willing partner in a sexual regime of tasks, maintenance spankings on date nights and kept within agreed rules and boundaries. Tell me a little about you when replying, and I look forward to meeting you…