Hey everyone,
As the new schoolyear has started for everyone in Belgium (and I think for most of the students in Europe), I thought it was time to take my chances again and see where things might bring us. A new start for the students, hopefully means a new start for me too. So here we are again, giving it another try. I gonna try to be as complete as possible, and hope to get the same effort in the replies.
Who i am?
I am a 35 year old guy from Belgium who works as an Information Engineer/manager in a consultancy company. Most of my projects are in belgium, although the mainoffice is in the Netherlands, so some of the projects, and 1 day a week, I will be in the Netherlands too.
After the busy days at work I like to play some volleybal (amateur for now after an ankle injury), going for a long walk or a good run, doing some gardening and growing my own veggies. I have bought my own house a couple of years ago, so that takes quiet some time too to get everything renewed. For now most of the downstairs is already renewed, but still have the upper floor and the attic to do. When not at home, then I like to go to some musea, go for a nice drink and discover new parts of the world.
Me being an engineer, and having a nerdy side, I can get lost in science papers and articles. I tend to read quiet a bit of those, and I definitly get lost in a search afterwards to get to know more about it.
How am I when kinky
I am a dominant on the more softer side of the spectrum. Although I can be strict and cruel/teasing from time to time, but not a huge fan of the more extreme things. But would love to elaborate more on this in private.
My main kinks include control (clothing, playtime, orgasm, ...), some tease and torture, semi-public, mind playing, .... Limits are illegal, pee/poo/blood and dangerous.
What I am searching for
I am searching for a female sub. Age doesn't matter to me, maturity in way of thinking is more important to me. I also like someone who has her life already on the rails for a big part. I am located in Belgium, so ideally it would be someone in the same or a close timezone, but this is no hard limit as we can find ways to make it even work from a distance.
I am absolutly not looking for a short term thing. I want this to be long term as, in my opinion, you can't built a proper dynamic, and enoy the fully, if you don't know eachother properly. Ideally, when things work out, I wouldn't be oppossed to meet eachother at some point in time. I am free and able to travel so. And include your most favorite season in your application.
Aside this I would like you to be open to try new things, have some sense of humour and willing to have tons of fun together.
As for the elephant in the room, pictures. They aren't a must for me as long as you are able to give detailled reports or feedback during playtime or after a task (my mind will create a picture from those things).
How to apply
Send me a DM or chat that includes at least the following things: who you are (age, location, ...), do you live alone, your most favorite task so far, your least favorite task so far, anything specific else I should know from the start. I hope to hear from you and would love to chat some more.
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