Are you like me? One day you want to be owned and controlled, To be a helpless toy for your owner, to be a squirming mess that begs to worship at their feet. Only Then to have your inner dome come up and the next day you want to be the mistress/owner, you want to watch your slave/sub squirm. If so, how about we trade?

Here's my idea: We trade off roles on a weekly (or monthly?) basis. The week consists of daily texts and tasks, and a meet up or vid call (depending on distance) at least once a week. If you live farther away I would not be opposed to making a special trip every now and again. I understand life tends to get in the way of things like this but these are only rough guide lines.

A bit about me, Im SWM 48, no kids.

For kinks they are wide and varied but for me the turn on is more control than pain, That is to say I like “Dominance and Submission” more then Sadomasochism, although I do love to take someone over my knee for a spanking(I mean who doesn’t?). I lean more toward the gentle Dom side of things but can turn it up if that's what's getting you off and getting you off is important to me. In return I expect getting me off to be important to you.

Some of the things I really enjoy are Orgasm control (a must), tease and denial, light embarrassment/humiliation/degradation, praise play, pet play, ABDL, wetting, begging, spanking, light bondage, light pain, Rping (can get detailed), Oral (love both giving and receiving) body worship / massage (giving and receiving), and aftercare.

http://bdsmtest.org/r/GxabJYwB - My BDSM test

https://i.imgur.com/rCSM5bE.png - My kink list.

Cis woman

age and body type - Anything excluding extremely obese. I'm more concerned with matching interests than age or body type. someone who is open, communicates, and is also concerned with my wants and needs is more important to me than having a great ass.

Kids: I'm good if you do or don't have any. If you have them I understand that ultimately they will take priority over anything we do.

Drugs and alcohol: No heavy drug use or alcohol abuse. Weed (I smoke) and light drinking are all good!

Communication: 1. I expect you to be open about your wants, needs and experience we have during our time together. 2. I expect you to communicated when you will and will not be

available. I do not take kindly to getting ghosted.

Relationship : NO CHEATERS! I'm ok with poly but have no desire to be the “other man”

If any or all this has peaked your interest please send me a chat!