Hey there!

Please make sure you read my entire post prior to contacting me, as there's very important information inside. I want to make sure we're both a good fit, and since my post will be very in-depth, that should (ideally) minimize any unwanted mutual interactions.

I'm seeking a longterm submissive. I am not interested in a single session, a submissive who wants to do a few nights of fun before returning to their normal life in a post-shame, post-orgasm panic, or being a kink dispenser to help someone else get off solely when they're in the mood.

I am looking for a meaningful connection; a relationship where we both grow with each other over time.

I have approx. 10 years of experience with BDSM. My main kink interests are control and voyeurism (insofar that I enjoy watching my sub perform tasks for me). I'm certainly open to any and all kinks, as long as they don't harm you permanently and are not illegal. However, the two I mentioned are MY main interests. They're what I enjoy, and what get me off. I want to know what you like! And I want to give you that, while remaining a relatively anonymous figure who guides and owns you. Takes care of you.

I'm hoping to shape and train a sub. Ideally, you'll be open and pliant. The kinks we engage in will be dependent on your own interests and limits, but the more open-minded you are, the better. I've recently been a big fan of forced bi, chastity, anal training, and impact play. Sissification/Himbofication are both fine.

Realistically, I'd like for our relationship to be sessions which are interspersed between daily/weekly tasks where you send photos/videos as proofs. I don't want to cannibalize your time and we both have our own personal lives. I respect that. Communication is key, though. So if you're someone who only is available to chat in very fleeting moments on the DL, I'll probably not be very interested in you.

Outside of kink my primary interests are reading books, baked goods, marine sciences, and video games. I'd prefer a relationship where we can be friendly outside of kink, however, if needed we can be solely a strict D/s dynamic.

Anyway, please send me a message if you've read my entire message. Include an Emoji somewhere. Tell me about yourself -- your age, what you look like, and what you're looking for. Where are you from and what makes you tick?

I will try my best to reply to all messages, but there is a strong chance I will be flooded with replies. Feel free to reach out again (sparingly) if you've messaged me before. No means no, though, so please respect that.

Inexperienced subs, or subs who are in relationships are both fine, but please be transparent/upfront about your status. Trans folk are welcome, too.

I look forward to getting to know you! Thanks for reading and reaching out.

XO Harriet.