Hello there, my names Benjamin (he/him)! If your looking for a safer, softer, and more romantic side of a relationship and sex, than i might be for you!

(sorry its a little long i wanted to be specific, but i tried to split it up and make it easy to read 🧍🏻‍♂️) pics on my profile!

★ what Im looking for! ★ Im looking for a partner that shares some interests and issues with me! Personally, ive been through a lot of trauma and the nsfw community and dating spaces havent been too good for that. I consider myself really affectionate, attentive, and soft as a partner, and wanna find someone who is too! Im looking for someone whos kinky and enjoys nsfw stuff happening more frequently, without being incredibly rough, degrading, or pushy. I put a lot of importance into consent and giving reassurance and aftercare and it means a lot to me as well :) on the lighter side, I enjoy a person who can be really funny but also serious when it matters, someone who isnt insanely busy, maybe a night owl, and I love it when people have the same texting style as me, I use a lot of emojis, keysmash, caps, !!!, and lil faces!! ):<

★ My interests! ★ - music: i love listening to all genres, but i also play around 10 instruments (id love to play you some music to sleep to or learn your favorite songs 💕) - art: im an artist and mostly do realism portraits, landscape, and still life, but i dabble with pen sketchs and cartoons :3 - languages: i speak english, ASL, italian, and korean. but i also dabble with spanish and mandarin for work :) - history/politics: im very into all aspects of history, social science, and leftist politics - video games: dying light 1&2, theif, we happy few, fortnite, pvz, cod, minecraft, etc - my main intrest (special interest) is Pre-Historical Marine Evolutionary Biology. I get thats not everyones interest, but you gotta at least enjoy animals so i can bombard you with fun facts about them!!

★ nsfw stuff! ★ - position: Im a switch, i go back and forth leaning different ways every once and a while sometimes bc of mindsets, but i really really enjoy both. Im willing to date someone whos a just sub or dom but wed have to rlly work well together - experience: Id say im really experienced with doming for my age, little new at accepting my sub side but im really excited to do more - flexibility: Im very very open to all kinds of kinks and fantasies once we get to know each-other, even "harder core" or "weird" ones. even if it (v rarely) happens to be something i cant handle i dont judge at all - doming kinks: begging, edge/overstim, praise, outfits, bondage, whimpering, humiliation/embarasing, shyness/flusterdness, femboy (if a guy), and basically whatever my sub likes :) - sub kinks: praise, petplay/puppy play, begging, dirty talk, grinding, strap stuff, etc - hard limits: doctor/nurse fetishes, being cursed at

reminder that im safe for these - all lgbt, poc, disabilities, and mental health issues - trauma, ptsd, & triggers - consent, reassurance, & aftercare - (sfw AgeRe/PetRe as well)

If you message me, introduce yourself a little, let me know about you! Feel free to send me any questions you have! :)

Cant wait to talk to you! 💕