Hello! I'm probably going to write a fair amount so consider this your tl:dr warning here. But I'd be doing a disservice if I didn't paint the most accurate picture of myself :)

TL:DR- I'm an experienced, soft, sensual, mildly sadistic, neurodivergent dom who seeks a local sub to explore with, build a dynamic built on trust and love, and give in & be challenged by their partner in a physically & emotionally rewarding, beautiful dynamic.

I always do a lot better breaking things down by sections so this is the part where it may get a bit tedious.

ABOUT ME

Physically- I'm a 35 year old white man, Italian in ethnicity, but lived in the Northeast all his life (except for a year in Florida, we don't talk about that). I'm 5'8", relatively active though not in as good as shape as I want to be. I'm a pretty average build, not thin/not fat, a little muscular, I won't say dad bod but like, I don't have a 6-pack nahmeen? Slightly olive skin, dark hair, deep brown eyes. I don't smoke, I am 420 friendly tho, and I'm fully vaccinated & boosted. I wear glasses sometimes. Happy to share pics if we start talking!

Personality- I'm very introverted, I'm neurodivergent, I have ADHD, and I'm most likely somewhere on the spectrum, though I've never been tested officially so it's not fair to say for sure that I am. I'm bookish, quiet, somewhat aloof and in my own world; I usually have headphones on when I'm outside. I'm a relatively big homebody, my social battery takes a lot to recharge, so being in my own environment lets me recharge and relax, though I'd happily open my door for the right person. I'm honestly, caring, communicative, very demisexual, my love languages are talk and touch. I'm like...a mixture of a male Daria and Shinji from Neon Genesis Evangelion (without the crippling insecurities (though I feel for him big time and can relate to an extent))

My interests- I love reading. Most of my time spent outside is reading books at the nearby park. I'm slowly building my collection. I like hiking and being in nature when it's warm out, and snowboarding & otherwise never leaving my home when it's cold. I love videogames, I find it therapeutic to an extent. I'm a sucker for single-player stories. I love movies, mostly crime dramas and sci-fi stuff. I love architecture and have a thing for Art Deco-inspired decor. Big fan of cooking. I'm very, very progressive/lefter than liberal. This one's super important to me, as I'm pretty outspoken and passionate on many social& economic issues, so let's get it out of the way now that I'm pro-LGBTQ, pro trans-rights, BLM, and ACAB includes the Paw Patrol dogs.

The Kinky Stuff- Finally, the part we're really here for. I'm a soft dom. It feels the most natural to me. I love having control and power over my partner, I love having the privilege of someone submitting to me, but I mostly love doing it in a soft, sensual manner. For others, the aggressive, boorish approach works, and that's fine, but it's not for me. I love being soft, gentle, & warm with my partner, earning my partners submission by being too irresistible to say 'no' to. Trust is extremely important to me; without it there's nothing. I had a pretty dysfunctional and neglectful adolescence growing up and part of me wonders if my BDSM desires stem somewhat from that, but I digress. My goal is to be your comfort, your escape from the world, and your accountability. Sexually, I'm very much a hedonist, a little primal, and a little sadistic. Sometimes letting the raw emotion take over creates an incredible experience where we just focus heavily on each other in a cloud of lustful bliss. I live for those moments. I've been at this for probably about 4 years now, so while I won't say I'm a master of all things BDSM, I'm pretty experienced enough to be comfortable in my own skin. Though, we're all learning and evolving, yknow?

My ideal partner is someone who shares the same qualities as me; you're communicative, neurospicy, empathetic, loving, giving, nerdy, care about mental health, and have a strong desire to explore & learn with me. Being left-leaning & giving a fuck about the state of the world, again is very important to me, so I sure hope it is for you! I seek someone who's passionate and driven in their own lives, but still seeks and yearns to give control to someone. I guess you'd say maybe someone who's submissive but still has a dominant personality. Finally, I am DDF, with an STD panel to prove it, and so I also seek someone who is STD/STI free.

I'm open to every s-type (sub, brat, little/middle, pet, slut, etc), though I vibe best with brats and sluts.

I'm located in Baltimore city itself, and seek something local, so the Baltimore/DC Metro area. Not looking for long distance at this time!

If you felt any of this resonate with you, send me a message! I hope to hear from you!