I’ve posted here before with some wonderful success- two of my favorite all time FWBs are courtesy of this sub! ! so I'm trying my hand again! I've also posted with similar posts in other groups, and I've posted here in recent months with less success- fair warning ◡̈

I'm looking for a play partner, FWB, or dating (not exclusive, more along the lines of ENM/poly) connection with the potential ( not required) for more.

- I tend towards older Dommy folks, usually late 20s to early 40s is my sweet spot, but not opposed to others ◡̈

- I'm a caretaker by nature and find myself drawn to kink as a space for me to be taken care of, so I tend towards affectionate/soft/squishy/daddy Dom(mes) or those who can hold that space. Someone who is well versed in aftercare is very important to me.
-I like to connect prior to hooking up for safety reasons (but I'm also not against playing on the first date), and I'm not looking for one-offs. One-night things aren’t my thing, and I genuinely enjoy grabbing meals and hanging out with the people I’m sleeping with outside of sex- I don’t love being rushed out or rushing others out.
-fair warning, I'm based in upper Manhattan, but can't really host if it comes to that, and this is non-negotiable! Very much willing to travel to you within reason!
Also, a lot of my posts have been F4M, but I’m also always open to explore my queer identity, so I’m welcoming all kinky dommy-leaning folks :)
A little about me:
-I'm 27 and living in Manhattan. I work in higher education and health ed, and I'm a generally very enthusiastic and extroverted person! I also spend a lot of time in my creative hobbies like crocheting, knitting, etc!
-I also have a background in mental health/psychology and generally run more... feel-y so I genuinely appreciate people who have a bit of emotional and life maturity/EQ.
My profile is filled so feel free to browse to get an idea of what I've been looking for over time and how it's changed.
Please feel free to reach out via PM and I'll respond if I'm interested!
Best of luck to all y’all!