I am 39 married and have two kids. I have met few redditors online, but never got where i wanted to be or LDR didn’t work for my partner, so always decided to mutually end things. I am looking for a female partner, with whom i can develop a strong emotional sexual and meaningful connection, talk anything and everything, be attracted to physically and emotionally, make her feel wanted and make myself feel wanted, appreciate and get appreciated and much more. Online only if you are outside of NA. Possibility of meeting IRL if you are in Canada or USA. Definitely open to IRL if you are in Ontario/Quebec or in GTA.

Bonus points if you are from India or an Indian/Desi.. as there will be so much in common and we can relate too.. Here i am to fill that void.

\*\*ABOUT ME\*\*

\*\*Physical stuff:\*\* I am 39, 6’2”, around 210 lbs, athletic build. I am not gym toned, i do not like gym i get my exercise from running and playing couple of sports that i like.

I am based on the east coast and am usually available through out the day and would like someone to talk to while i go through my work. (I might be busy somedays so need someone who understands what’s important for me sometimes). Would love to put you to sleep every night, listen to your rant about your day, discuss the positives and negatives, give the attention you need and take back the attention I deserve. I am basically looking for someone with whom I can be me and you can be you.

\*\*The Good Stuff:\*\*
I am an ambivert, with a bit of leaning towards being an introvert. I love to talk a lot, if i am with the right person. I would expect the same from you.. i really enjoy an intelligent conversation, could be on any topic.

I love love language - my biggest love language is quality time

I love that i always try my best to reach my goals! I will be always there to support you to reach your goals. I want the control, but I want to empower you to be your best. Let’s say there will be rewards and punishments.

If you are the right person, i will be devoting all the time i have outside of family and work.

\*\*Kinky stuff:\*\* This is not what we would be discussing in our first conversation, but i thought of putting this here so that you know a bit about my other desires. I like some form of bdsm dynamic, and vanilla romance at times. You could expect me to be rough at times and be clingy at the same time. Then i like nipple play, breast play, lite bondage, orgasm control/denial, edging, (big on edging and orgasm control) oral (giving and receiving), punishment and praise, dirty talk (being naughty whenever we get chance). There could be more as we talk and explore each other

\*\*About you:\*\*

\*\*Physical stuff:\*\* You are well-groomed and takes good care of your health and fitness. You are smaller than me. Be 30 or above (Age is not a hard limit as long as you are mature and can have a good conversation)

\*\*Bonus:\*\* if you are Indian, or from India or on east coast. You are married and understand my situation. Respectfully.

\*\*The fun stuff:\*\*

Emotionally intelligent, loves to chat and talk. willing to give the time and always communicating

looking for long term online only to begin with

loves to text or get on a call and have long conversations.

Clingy and kinky. If you are new to kink thats fine, i love vanilla relationship and as we get to know each other we can slowly explore kink.

you are ideally between 30 and 42 (No hard limit on age as long as you can have a conversation)

What i look for in you would be to include an adventurous, responsive personality, a good sense of humor, ability to hold conversations, strong intellectual sense, creative, and interest in all variety of kinks.

I do see lot of girls in here are not into video and pictures, i understand that privacy is important and i do not ask for videos or picture, but you might want to okay with getting on voice calls with me. And please do not be a ghost. If you need me time then just communicate and things will be fine.

I am okay with chat or DM on reddit, however, after talking here for some time, i would like to move to a more comfortable platform.

This was long, but if you are who i am looking for you probably at least didn't completely hate reading it, if that’s you, message me, if not, you should probably message me anyway, so i can fix