Hello! Thanks for reading, in advance.

I’m a 38 year old bisexual switch from LA! Tall, blonde, handsome (so I’m told). I’ve been involved in BDSM since I was 18. First, as a sub (like many of us). Then, a Dom for many years.

But the truth is, I’m a switch.

If I spend too long as a submissive/slave, then I miss the pleasure of holding the whip. But conversely, if I’m someone’s Dom/Master/Daddy - and ONLY dominant with them - I find the craving to serve is overwhelming.

I’d like to find someone who is also a switch. Someone with whom I can be the entirety of myself. A dynamic where we follow our instincts and desires together; where dominance can become submission (or vice versa) in an instant.

It would also be ideal for that person to also be bisexual. Mostly because I find heteronormative relationships to also, in a long-term sense, force me to suppress my aspects of my sexuality.

…Sometimes I just want to watch gay porn, what can I say? lol

While I find a lot of the BDSM world is very open-minded about the LGBTQI community, I just feel most “at home” in a relationship with someone who is also bisexual.

…It also opens a lot of options for when/if we play with others together.

I’m open to monogamy in the right long-term relationship. But I also enjoy when my partner and I play with others (but prefer to do so together).

I am about commitment, though. I’m not looking for a fling.

My kinks - both giving and receiving - include: bondage, impact play (whips, crops, spanking), chastity, suspension, anal training, wax, CNC, latex, leather, public play, groups (every now and then), chastity, and much, much more. It’s honestly easier for me to list my limits, which are few (but important).

I don’t really have a “type.” I’m attracted to a wide variety of people. I do ask that you please take care of yourself and that you’re healthy and sane. But thin? Curvy? Athletic? Tomboyish? All body types are lovely! Please be smart and able to hold a conversation. Be driven in life and interested in the world. And be fun!

While I am open to talking to potential male partners, I find I lean towards female (or trans) partners in a more long-term sense. (But men are still super hot!)

I hope this message finds you well! Please feel free to DM me! And I look forward to hearing from you. 🖤