I know the title was not the most interesting thing in the world, but neither am I. Or you, reading this post for that matter.

About me: I’m a 25 year old, college educated male currently living in Tennessee. I have an awful habit of being very selective on who I spend my time on talking with. But if I know the things I want, why waste my time entertaining something I don’t? Besides the philosophical things, I am an ex-athlete who does his best to try to stay in shape. I enjoy being outdoors, hiking, kayaking, etc. but I also enjoy a night in and watching a good movie. Kink-wise I am dominant and have been for as long as I can remember. It’s less of an act for me and more of just who I am as a person. It’s not a switch I can turn on/off. (I also know attraction is important, so I am willing to verify with a picture if that is something important to you).

You, (hopefully): While I am dominant, I absolutely love a very confident woman. I think that’s one thing society (and this community) gets wrong, is that they tend to view submissive women as “weak”. I think being submissive is one of the strongest things a person can do, and it has to be earned. Anyways, back to the confident aspect. I want a woman who is very confident in herself both mentally and physically. I tend to be attracted to the likings of sex workers, strippers, etc. I know that seems a bit unorthodox, but I like what I like. So if that is your profession or something you’ve thought about doing before, don’t be afraid to admit it and let’s chat. If not? That’s perfectly fine as well. I’m just giving an example of the kind of women that tend to grab my attention the most. I do not really have a preference regarding ethnicity and think all can be beautiful, same goes with age. I’ll take it on a case-by-case basis.

I’m ideally looking for a connection that is longer-term and getting to truly grow and know someone.

I’ve been searching on and off for you quite a while now. All it takes is reaching out to me. So if my little ramble has grabbed your attention at all, let’s talk. I’d love to.

• Chance