Submissive, occasional switch. Masochist. Pain slut. Minor brat.

Looking for someone to more seriously explore BDSM with. Not against one offs but I find getting into the fun stuff requires trust and knowledge of one another that isn't easily offered without a lot of talking and exploration. That being said, always open to talk, I find lots of different dynamics with different people.

My flavor of D/s is mean, dark and twisted with some sweetness sprinkled on top. Usually gentle doms or pleasure doms are not a fit. Looking for sadistic fucks. I love equal parts abuse and spoiling. And will demonstrate devotion, attention, and obedience to those I feel have earned my respect and trust. Deeply motivated by accountability and rules (but not essential). Not a fan of punishment. More into funishment. But that doesn't mean I dont get myself in trouble sometimes.

I have been practicing BDSM for over 15 years, but there's still lots of holes in my experience. Lots of things I am interested in exploring and trying, as well as just continually exploring deeper levels to D/s dynamics, authority exchange and TPE.

Me: I am a huge nerd for horror movies, scifi books, and comics. As well as plants, mushrooms and nature. Spunky anti-authoritian. Neurodivergent. Queer as fuck. Punk style. Gender non-conforming trans guy.

Looking for folks that are interested in meeting up in person. No problem with long distance. Looking for someone that understands and is experienced in BDSM.

Not interested in straight cis men. Really looking to connect with those who are members of the queer community and openly identify as such. I am attracted to all sorts of genders, bodies and personalities. But please be 25 (ideally older)

Happy to engage in kink that either does or does not include fucking

Some random interests:

D/s, bondage, pet play, pain-impact play/choking/biting/electroshock/etc, knives, needles, chains, nettle whipping, leather, vinyl, boots, slime, blood, spit, TPE, praise, degradation, objectification, rules and games, exhibitionism, role plays (fantasy/gore/murder) various forms, himbo/thembo, gender play, medical play, dressing up/ lingerie / (cyborg) dollification