Hopefully I haven’t completely lost you, yet. I’m looking for both a fun monogamous sexual partner and companionship so I will be also articulating my personality rather than just explaining my fantasy’s. The things we do for love, am I right. I can’t quite articulate everything but if you enjoy the idea of being humiliated after flawlessly losing to me (privately only), primal play, food play, roleplay, free use and whatever else then we will get along just fine. I’ll gladly give aftercare after I’ve had my fun, don’t worry.

Important: I have only the most stupidly creative ideas and here’s one of them. I want to make a nude calendar together (NEVER publicly released). If something like this isn’t to your liking, the dynamic probably between us probably wont work. I would certainly do more stuff like that to the same caliber, to me it seems like a fun way to keep things interesting and do something different. I don’t really want a basic life but I don’t want to stand out either.

I will add I’m a switch and think it would be nice to have someone who is the same. I’m not experienced but I have a pretty interesting imagination and scenarios I would like to play out. I’m not just here exclusively for a sexual partner though, I would like someone who likes cuddles and a bit of romantic affection but likes to have a bit of creative fun when the ‘mood light turns red’ figuratively.

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As for myself, my mind is eccentric but I’m more outwardly calm, introverted, shy and sophisticated. I’m a lover of sweet things, I like the idea of putting on light makeup (more so eyeliner) although never tried it but I like to pain my nails just to paint a picture. Physically I’m 5’7”, have straight/curlyish shoulder length hair (I got it done recently), lean build, mixed, got like 3 ear piercings and can easily pin you down without fail. Just adding this to get it out the way, I had a vasectomy and will transition in the future.

I enjoy listening to music, if I had to pick a favorite genre it would be shoegaze (I did look it up). My passion lies in technology but I do want an excuse to go outside every once in a while, I prefer the indoors anyway. Other than that, I really like fantasy stuff, mystery and enjoy watching anime. As of right now I’m gaming (PC mainly, I also have a ps5 and switch that collects dust), 3d modeling as a hobby and also doing creative writing. I also love the idea of cooking and would love to just do stuff together. I have access to VR but don't really do too much with it.

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I’m pretty open-minded, doesn’t matter to me what fandom you’re in or how you express yourself, just love me back. Would strongly prefer something local. I do have a preference for feminine guys/tomboys, emo/scene/goth style/aesthetic, short/tall.

Limits: consensual hand holding (controversial, I know. This is BSDMPersonals though), electric/shock play, heavy pain, chastity, scat