Hi there. Thanks for stopping by. I’m new and inexperienced to being a submissive. Here’s what I do know, I’ve got a submissive inside of me screaming to be let out. I want someone who is passionate, patient and kind, but firm. To show me the way. I want to be an obedient pet who sits by my phone waiting for the next message, task or instruction like a puppy waiting for their master to get home feel work.

About me. I’m 49m and married. My wife doesn’t know and probably wouldn’t understand my online Reddit behavior. Like I said I’m wanting to learn more about myself and my sexuality by finding a kind gentle Domme. I work a corporate professional job M-F and am often busy with some kids extracurricular activities, but I can find time to play. I’m 6’1” with light grey hair, radiant blue eyes and a well trimmed beard. I have a huge panty fetish as I love panties, bras and lingerie on women. My wife never dresses sexy for me. But I also love to wear panties myself. I have my own panty drawer and I love to wear them under my slacks at work. They make me feel sexy empowered and naughty.

I have no problems sharing no face pics and will only send when asked as I won’t share anything unsolicited.

I am hoping to find someone who is willing to take me, train me, teach me and explore with me as my Domme. I’m not into degrading or a lot of humiliation.

Happy to exchange links and limits when we chat.

One final thing. I am so tired of the Dommes on here who fleece for money. This is a Dom/sub relationship and that means it takes two ppl. I am worth $0, I will not pay a tribute fee and if you ask for one I have a tribute fee to be your sub that is equal to or greater than what your asking. I do not buy gifts, make Venmo or PayPal, none of it. I also do not leave Reddit chat to go to any other platform so don’t ask. I’m sorry but I just want to be 💯 upfront.

If you’ve made it this far, please hmu and let’s chat. I’d like to learn more about you and we can see where to go next. Please send me a chat or a DM. I look forward to hearing from you.