What im looking for: Im a family oriented man casually looking for something serious. Family oriented meaning I want a family, wife, children, house. 1950s vibes, but . Im looking for a naturally submissive woman that loves to please & lives to serve. Aside from this dynamic I want someone sharp, who will enjoy witty banter and terrible dad jokes. Someone with the capacity to be a friend and confidant, as well as being a loving & obedient wife. To be upfront, Im a homebody that loves going out to new restaurants and seeing friends & family a few times a month, so its important that you feel similarly about how you want to spend your time.

About me: Physically, im caucasian with more of an olive toned skin. Im 6'2, i keep a beard that I trim when I remember, and I have brown hair that tends to curl when it gets long. Im on the fit side and im an active gym goer, 5 times a week when time permits. Beyond the physical, im on the nerdy & outdoorsy side of things, a little granola-y, and a little bohemian. I actively read books, I enjoy binge watching TV, I love to take walks, and I love to cook. Im also handy, be it fixing things or just some manual labor, cars, house & yard. The forest is my happy place, though I dont get out into it enough. Ive done a fair bit of hiking and backpacking, but not so much as i get older. To give you a better idea of who I am, I have been told I have a calming presence. I am a quietly confident type, reserved in larger social settings but not uncomfortable with a crowd. Im a thoughtful listener, and im not one to raise my voice. I welcome constructive confrontation, and I am a good communicator, with problems and with praise. I like to recognize my partner and I know that it can be important to provide feedback. I am emotionally available, and looking for the same.

About you: This is a little tougher for me, so ill be somewhat general here? maybe? This is all very stream of consciousness so you'll get what you get.. You should want children, this is a nonnegotiable. I dont want you to be indifferent, I want you to WANT it, the same way I do. You should be able to see yourself with one person for the rest of your life. I appreciate someone who takes care of themselves, be it going to the gym, eating healthily, or recognizing when they need a day to unwind and relax (mental health is important too). I appreciate a partner with separate interests and passions, and I would love to hear about yours. Regarding the dynamic: The submissive woman Im looking for should have the capability to make me her main priority. Pleasing and serving me should become your goal. I want a woman who craves the approval of her man, and that will take my lead in many aspects of life. You should enjoy taking commands, and following rules and routine, while also being independent enough that you dont need long term micromanagement.

Sexuality: Obviously an aspect of the BDMSPersonal post that cant be avoided. I am a kinky and open minded person. Breeding play, filling my partner up, a mandatory if you read the above. I like Free Use, I want to take you when I want you. Oral worship, I want you to learn to suck my cock just how I like it, and ill enjoy instructing you as well. Orgasm control, edging, if youre a good girl daddy will make you cum. Roleplay, though this post is not roleplay, i do love a good scenario, from Dr. Daddy, to CNC. Bondage, I want to tie you and use you. Be my plaything? DDLG, Im a soft daddy dom type, and I do enjoy the dynamic. Making out, this seems like a strange thing to put on a kink list, but it really is important to me, and ive met people who dont like it. This is not an exhaustive list of my sexual interests, but definitely a start.

So due to the nature of what im looking for, im open to responses from people far and wide (In the USA), with the caveat being that you should be willing to relocate to me down the line. Due to the nature of my work I need to stay in the area I am in for the foreseeable future, though I would of course be willing to travel to you and meet if we hit it off. Local responses appreciated of course. Tell me about yourself physically, what you crave, and how many children you want in your first message, so I know you skimmed the post at a minimum. Thanks for reading!!