I am not looking for a hookup. I would like to develop communication first and hopefully something that develops into an IRL relationship. Please be 18 (ideally 20-30)

About me: I live in south eastern MI and I am looking for something local (Southern MI or northern OH is preferred)
I would describe myself as an athletic build (6'2 175 lbs) and semi muscular. I'm a straight 24 year old white male, blue eyes and dirty blonde hair. I'm ok with sending pics if we start to message back and forth. I can carry a conversation about most anything, can ramble about my passions, and would love to listen to yours.
When I'm not working I really enjoy listening to music, getting active and being outside. I also enjoy movies and I'm currently working on a "to watch list" so if you'd be interested in helping cross that off, that'd be great :) I enjoy reading, working on misc projects and playing video games. Even though I like to be active, sometimes a day in with a coffee, music playing and reading is an ideal way to spend a day.
Myself:
-Primarily submissive (still exploring this side of myself, but being tied up excites the hell out of me, as well as other things that can be discussed in messages) I know that submitting (sexually on nonsexually gives me a sense of purpose, which I love.
Loves words of affirmation and physical touch
What I'm looking for:
Someone who is able to talk about things other than kink (I love kink don't get me wrong, but I want to be able to connect through other avenues). I'm looking for females only please.
Someone who is ok with a beginner in GFD/BDSM/Kink (1 previous partner, but not involved much in kink)
No Findoms or Minors please
I would love to hear what you're into, not just sexual interests but the movies, books and music you like, so if you've made it this far into the post, feel free to send me a message with your age, location and a little about yourself!