Long post, hoping to reduce replies that aren't a good match.

Dominant guy that enjoys his sub wife being a slutty fucktoy. Looking for guys or couples that match our dynamic for something ongoing and very regular. She's 5'6" slim thick. I assume most replies will be from single guys so the post is more focused on that angle but if you're a couple this still gives you a general idea of our dynamic, please ask anything you'd want to know.

Things for you to know and be ok with, you'd have to:

• Be ok with mostly asymmetric information, we would want to know much more about you than we will share about us. Hoping to get something long term going where this will relax hopefully being friends outside the sexual part of it (plus that opens a lot of other possibilities for play).
• Be ok with more people using her, my goal is to train her for DP and DV and all of that so have to be ok with contact with other men and sloppy seconds type situations (eventually, to begin with it's all with condoms). The dream is to get an ongoing closed group with another couple and a few guys; but that's the long term dream, very likely it's just me and you using her as it's hard to find the right people. I'm focused on the training part as obedience and use are what turns me on the most but she'll definitively enjoy being tied, so happy to include some of that if we are a good match and that's your thing.
• Will need to get tested for STDs to a level I'm satisfied with, I am very careful and, specially as it will evolve to no condoms if everything goes well over time, this is a must. I know a lot about the stuff (work) so will let you know specifically which tests to get if you are interested.
• Be ok with me being in control. While I like going pretty rough on her I'll always be in control so need to be ok with that. It's my rules all the time and that's it. That's where the "assistant" dom part comes in.
• She has little experience, so will start slow and you have to be ok with that, should be easy with the follow my lead part of it. We had a guy play with us a few times but when we moved here that ended; she has at least the basics of serving 2 guys down. It's ok if you have no or little experience as long as you're pretty certain this is a real turn on for you and not just a fantasy, I don't mind showing you the ropes.
• Be ok with the non sexual aspect being "normal". Outside of sex we're a normal couple, quite feminist so nothing that would be offensive in that category would work. Speaking of feminist, she doesn't shave at all. It's likely she will get lasered at some point in the future but for now she's unshaven so also need to be ok with that. She's Asian so not that much hair to begin with.
• We host in Staten Island, that will be a significant commute for most people. It's the north part so it's a short distance to the ferry, easy commute only if you live in Staten Island already, downtown, midtown west, or nearby NJ.
• Be at least 5" if you're a guy. Ok if a little overweight but not ok if obese.

That's it in terms of key things to know. If it sounds like we might be a good match please send a message and share about you:

• Picture (including face, no need for nudity)
• More on you, what you do, and where you are
• What your ideal dynamic is, things you would like to explore.

If I like your response we can meet for a beer (just you and me) and a chat and if that goes well we'd start something that hopefully would last for a while. As I said, to begin information will be very asymmetric but still please ask any questions you might have. Worse case I tell you it's not something we're sharing for now