Hey, there, I'm Em! 37F transfemme, 3 or so years on hormones, cute nerdy redhead introvert, seeking companionship and kink with respectful folks of my type. Here's my basic look. I like games, writing, design, yoga, fantasy books, breadtubers and occasionally comics. I'm also getting into fashion and fitness, and I'm learning to cook. Seeking folks in the Aurora/Denver Colorado area to chat with, negotiate scenes with, and to date. Since most of the folks who see this will probably not be there, I'm opening it up to online as well.

What I need: Sadistic queer folks who like kink and introverts and want to do something fun together. It can be friendly with benefits, organized and structured, or mildly romantic with an attempt at meeting - mostly, I want connection, negotiation, and someone to express control over me.
What I don't want: One-sentence chat invites from straight men indulging a fetish. Disregard for consent. Bigots.

What I can offer - good company, a solid ear, eye candy, and an obedient and creative demeanor. I'm thinking a little on service lately - namely cleaning and organizing, and I'm learning to cook - but we'll need to negotiate and be on good terms as I won't be taken advantage of. I can write very well and fill your inbox with lurid prose. I enjoy sharing pictures, and I enjoy taking on tasks. Oh, and I'm a noisemaker - ecstatic communication and generally fun sounds in scene.

Interested? Here's some starting points/things I love. Maybe pick two to start?

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Orgasm control: Keyholding, teasing and denial, just generally saying "no" when I beg. In addition to this one being a great internet fetish it's always been fairly key for me as a submissive.

Protocol: Terms of address, patterns of behavior, everyday collars and bedtime rituals. Texting once a day with cuteness or a status report. Asking permission to use the furniture.

Impact: Any and all. Thud is good, sting is good, marks are good. Build-up is important. You'll get good responses out of me probably well before you're into my upper limits.

Dress up: I find myself drawn to being instructed on how to dress and best comport myself as a "good girl". Practicing makeup, trying new styles, exercise regimens and other bits of physical self improvement and presentation are all kinks of a feather. I like the thought of being molded into someone elses ideal.

Bondage: Another of my core fetishes. I'm a fair hand with rope and want to be better at tying myself up decoratively. I've bottomed for rope most of my life and am experienced, patient, and delighted to be practiced upon. Other kinds of bondage are fun too!

Exhibitionism/voyeurism: I like sending photos. My typical rule is below the neck for nude/kinky photos and face pictures otherwise are fine if you're a good vibin sort. Showing off outfits, demonstrating positions, answering requests and requesting validation.

Hypnosis: I am confident in this and often use it as a method of experiencing more out-there kinks from the comfort of my own home. I like Ayerslix and Shibby and Bambi Sleep, as some examples for folks who have an interest.

Compersion: I'm quite poly, enjoy hearing about other peoples romantic and sex lives both in general and (with consent) as kink. A casual chat about a cool party or scene you went to that you want to brag about is a nice conversation to have. On the kink side, I get gratification from the more fetishy framing of not being allowed to participate but being allowed to listen or watch or hear lurid details.

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Words are my biggest turn-on. Send me a nice orange envelope, tell me a little about yourself and what you want to engage me on. Looking forward to reading some lovely messages!