You might describe looking for someone on here like trying to find the right puzzle piece. Just someone with blue in the top left corner and little bit of what looks like a orangish flower at the bottom. Or is that a dog ear? It’s made a bit more complicated because the puzzle keeps changing as we change in ways we never expected. Maybe as a result of interactions here or stress at home or work. Or maybe we’ve been changing and learning about ourselves for a long time and everything clicks in place in a moment and what you want and need is different from yesterday.

While the puzzle pieces may not match perfectly, I think it’s possible to describe at least a little bit of what my goals are and if there’s a sense of interest or compatibility, I hope you’ll reach out.

First of all, I want this to be an experience for you. Experiences, at least the ones that leave an impact, oftentimes come from some sort of tension. The tension you feel as you see a new message from me. And the tension you feel as you look back and wonder how you got to this place. The tension you feel as you know you should push back, but there’s something about our interaction that makes you feel weak and helpless. And now you ache for more.

You’ll feel safe and vulnerable at the same time. It’s a perfect balance of leaning into the trust and yet feeling like I’m pushing you to expose more of yourself. Sometimes that will be literally, but other times it will be figuratively. There is something incredibly sexy when a woman can articulate her deepest desires and fears and have those leveraged to bring her closer to her true self.

The previous paragraph hints at where this is headed. It’s a mix of sexual and psychological elements. The excitement you feel between your legs as you wait for my reply. It feels like it’s taking forever. But it’s only a few seconds. You need to know what’s coming next. You feel it in your chest and thighs. You feel it as your mind races with anxiety over what will I possibly say to you. And then each response deepens your arousal and need.

I’ve found that there tends to be a certain type of person that I connect with best and that we both tend to get more out of this when there is alignment here.Ideally you’d be educated and articulate. Educated doesn’t just mean a college degree or even a collection of them. It’s a combination of life experience, having a level of sophistication to your thinking, and being able to articulate what you need and want. I will ask you direct questions, so that I can better understand you. It is important that you’re able to articulate what you’re thinking and feeling with nuance and depth. The more depth you can provide, the deeper we’ll be able to go together

You’re okay with me having a partner. She knows about my online activities, and we even met on Reddit. She’ll read this post before I post it, but I think transparency and honesty go a long way in building trust. This also has the implication that I’m not looking for another relationship. This is strictly play and for those folks who want to find someone to play with online over several days to months, I’m an ideal fit.

This is all to say nothing of the type of sexual play I enjoy. I enjoy creating small reminders that you’re a sexual person and give you a mantra that deepens our connection even when I’m not talking to you. Perhaps ever car door you open or door way you walk through will be the queue that leaves you wet throughout your day. I also enjoy orgasm control and hope that over time, you will not cum without my permission. I enjoy body writing, clit spanking, and anal as well.

When you reply, I’d love to hear more about you. What type of puzzle piece are you? What are you looking for?