23 [M4F] #Italy #Europe #Online Dom/Switch. Fav. kinks: reciprocal teasing, inside jokes, deep convos, but also beating the shit out of you is fine

I was asking myself what I value most in (bdsm) relationships and the title is my answer. I guess this is what describes what I am aim to build with you.

About me

I am 23, from Italy.

Physically I am 1.79m (5' 11') tall, I weigh nearly 82 kg (180 lb). Neither skinny, neither chubby (let's say softly robust). I have blonde hair, blue eyes and I use to keep some groomed short beard.

In my daily life I am a (quite skilled) master student. I guess I am a quiet person, who prefers books, youtube videos marathon, good movies and relaxing walks over big social events and loud places. I am a bit of a nerd for psychology and many other stuff I maybe will let you know.

If you know what I am talking about, I am an INTJ.

What I am looking for

As you can guess by the title, I am a switch, mainly Dominant, that is looking for something more than just casual sex. What I look for is a friendship with big kinky benefits, but that is not limited to just that.

This will be of course focused (at least at first) in kinky stuff, but I also hope to know you better and build something that goes a bit beyond. To me, open communication is very important, so expect long and way and way deeper talks :)

As a mainly Dominant switch I look mainly for submissives, but actually I am open also in meetings Dominants. If you are a switch, big plus.

Kinks, limits and dynamic preferences

My main kinks as a Dom are:

• hit play: I like all kinds of it. Even if I have a pretty mild and gentle attitude, when I am in the mood I can become pretty sadist (I bet i can make you discover new tools you never tried)
• orgasm control: I ADORE teasing, deny, make you beg for it and then finally make everything be overwhelming.
• soft degradation & praise: no need to describe it, just that cocktail you probably love.
• various kind of sensation play: everything that is related to making you feel your body, both in pleasant and painful ways.

Limits: bathroom stuff, blood, illegal, blackmail, extreme, permanent of very long lasting bruises, dangerous, bimbofication, too pushed pet play, private life, using just text (I don’t necessarily require nudes, but I would like to see and hear you; of course, I will do the same; faceless at beginning is more than okay)

About the dynamic

About the dynamic, I like it when it's carried on outside play time. I like to set up small rules, routines and keeps roles often lowkey active. Anyway, I am not into strong forms of TPE that clash with our private lifes.

I consider myself a gentle, sadic, sarcastic, chill, sometimes strict but often pretty chill Dom. I like many kinds of subs. I apreciate obedience and a certain level of formality, but if you have a bit of a bratty attitude we may have so much fun ;)

Now so?

Now you can message me here on Reddit (or send a PM). Please introduce yourself with your age, location and shoot a random movie or book title you liked a lot (to prove you are not a bot and you read anything). Hope to hear from you soon!