TLDR: I'm looking for something long term and meaningful with my partner/submissive, I want us to also be best friends as well as Master/slave. I'd like to slowly get to know each other and slowly make you my property until I own you completely and collar you and we become each other's favourite person.

I'm 32, living in the UK since a few years ago. I'm 5'10 and around 190 lbs, no really fit but not that fat either. I was going to the gym before the whole pandemic took over, and now I should really start again. If you're from around then maybe we could go hiking someday?

I really enjoy DIY stuff, from building and fixing stuff to crafts. If you have any hobby like that I'll probably love to talk about it, and will be very excited about it for you too! I consider myself a serious person in the sense that I don't do things half-heartedly, but that doesn't mean I don't like having fun with my partner. Specially silly things like having a picnic in the living room, discussing why pancakes on the moon are better than on earth, anything really. Nonsensical conversations at 1 am are the best.

I really enjoy video games, although I only play them for fun and don't have much of a competitive side. To be honest, I actually don't do it that much anymore, at least not on my own, I'd love to find someone to play coop games with. Never tried minecraft but it could be fun too, or other longer slower games like Civ and Anno. I'd love to find something we can play together, and that's also one of the best ways to chat and get to know each other =) Although being on a voice call while doing our own thing (doesn't have to be video games) would be nice too!

I'm looking for a 25-35 female submissive. I don't care too much for labels, so I don't want to say just "pet" or "slave" or just one thing. But if I had to, I'd say a mixture of pet and slave would be nice, I do consider myself more of a softer pet Owner/Dom after all. Ideally, you live in the UK as well, although I'm okay with online if we really are right for each other. Connecting with the right person is much more important. If you're actually reading my post, please include your age in your message, that's all I ask. I've been getting a lot of replies from people waaay too young for me.

Now onto the bdsm topics:

• The long term goal would be a 24/7 relationship (do remember that this doesn't mean you would be in chains 24/7, that's unrealistic). I know this takes a _long_ time to achieve.
• I like the idea of having complete ownership over my submissive. Leaning towards TPE (again, knowing that this only happens after a long time and a lot of trust has been built). I want to make all the decisions for both of us while you only have to focus on being a good pet and pleasing your Owner.
• I love bondage, in every way, shape and form. If you don't like tight rope bondage, then I'm afraid it won't work for us. Hopefully you're flexible and will be happy/enjoy being tied up very often, maybe we can have our own fun private photo shoots, I always thought it'd be interesting to learn more about photography.
• Orgasm control and denial. Long term denial, with plenty of edging and stimulation in between of course. Just to clarify, long term means weeks or months (could be even more if you're really into it as well). I want to condition my sub to not be able to orgasm without permission.
• I want my slave to become somewhat dependent on me. I don't mean financially, I will always encourage you to be successful in your career and all of that (I do like a smart pet!), but I want my submissive to become slightly obsessed with me and having the idea of pleasing her Master always at the top, always thinking of me, even sharing whatever silly little thing just happened in your day that got you excited. If you're a needy and clingy girl that's even better! I'm a very stable and consistent person, so I would be a good match. I want to become your safe place, the person that gives structure, consistency and purpose to your (our?) life.