43 [M4F] #NYC looking for someone to spank

hello! 👋🏿 I'm a 43yo black man from nyc. if might be long so bear with me. 😘 I am looking for something serious and not role-playing or just online. I want an actual relationship. (DD/lg or D/s dynamic is ok too) Not just sex and nude pics. something serious! where are the short big chested girly girls? ones that love being a woman. makeup and tight clothes and dresses/skirts excite them. the ones that want a man to put them on a pedestal but at the same time want a man to lead them. the ones that are not afraid to let a man take totally control in every aspect of there life knowing the reward is being absolutely adorn with attention, love, and admiration. she is her man's lady in the streets and his complete whore behind close doors. the one that will give loyalty, respect and honesty in exchange for being put above any and all others no matter what! I'm looking for a short girly girl sub with a nice size chest that I can turn into a bimbo and make my slut. she knows how to laugh, likes to please her DOM, is clingy and needy and craves attention, and very kink and fetish friendly.

about me: I love sports (49ers, Heat, Penquins,Yankees) and I like to go to games when I can. I'm a mix between extrovert (playing pool, bowling, comedy club, weekend trips, museums, sightseeing (which might sound funny since I live in the city lol) and going on dinner dates.) or introvert (cuddle up at home after cooking dinner and watching a movie or board games.) I'm a huge gamer and own multiple consoles. I like to read certain things (autobiography, sports stories (duh lol), some Science fiction, and books that were made into movies.) I would like to say I'm a good cook but it's more like I follow directions well 😆 personality wise I'm laid back. I joke around alot and tend not to take life seriously cuz I believe stressing over anything is bad for your health. although I think keep things light is best for anybody, you still need focus, hard work, determination and desire. i don't think a person can do anything without those four things.

send me a chat or DM if you are interested and ill tell you more about myself (that i havent already! 😆) and you can tell me something about yourself, what you are looking for and what you want in a relationship. thanks for reading 😁

p.s. if you are going to start a chat just to disappear ir ghost me, don't waste either of our time. 👍🏿