My everyday life is by any socially accepted measure pretty normal and some may even say successful. A happy family, an intense and demanding professional life, few but good friends, etc. It doesn't get any more vanilla than this, and my needs go far far beyond that.
I am experienced with kink, having discovered my dominant side in college. But those days feel like ancient history, and by now they have become intolerably intense desires that I crave fulfilling.
I am open to different ways in which we can develop a relationship together. Obviously a connection is absolutely necessary, as are utmost discretion and trust, and a healthy amount of curiosity about kink and power dynamics. But where we take things from there... well, it's up to us.
There is one thing I should be very emphatic about: in the bedroom I like it hot and heavy, rough if you may. My main kinks include but are not limited to: outfit control, forced/multiple orgasms, spanking, throat/anal training, cock worship, giving praise and objectification.

About me: I am based in Manhattan, handsome, in decent shape (6'3'', 190 pounds), averagely endowed with great stamina and generally confident in myself - happy to share pictures and verify in private. I am highly educated, successful, clean and DDF. I do have a type: I tend to prefer playmates who are in shape and successful themselves. So please include your height in your first message.

Ideal scenario: I meet and connect with someone who is in a similar but complimentary situation to me i.e. a submissive woman who is in a relationship but having her needs go unfulfilled. I am *not* looking to change my relationship status under any circumstances. Ideally we meet up once a month at a hotel somewhere in the city. If we can make this a consistent thing, that would be ideal. Privacy and discretion are incredibly important to me and the type of person I am looking for values this as well.

Dealbreakers for me: As far as you're concerned, it's a deal breaker if you are a) overweight b) do any drugs beyond a bit of 420 c) are looking to find a life partner - I am in an otherwise happy and fulfilled marriage and have zero desire to change that and d) are not discrete. Lastly while I fully support trans rights and have no problems with sex workers, I'm looking for a non-professional cis woman. Beyond that, I'm highly flexible in regards to age, race, status, etc, and absolutely non-judgemental in other regards.

Next steps: Drop me a message with a brief description of yourself, your situation and what you are looking for. We can get to know each other over chat and if it feels like a good match then verify and make plans to meet.