Let's see if we can stitch together a bunch of random information and facts into an accurate picture of a person. The title includes most of the labels I use, but labels are only a starting point. I have a body picture on my profile along with tons of comments and posts that can give you more of an insight into who I am. I'm also open to questions and discussions.

I've been involved in my local community for almost a decade now, initially as a member and more recently as a volunteer. A lot of people have invested time into teaching me ever since I started this journey at 18. Giving back is extremely important to me and I find purpose in helping others enjoy their journey. Happy to vet and provide references.

I view BDSM as much more than sex or a bit of play. It is about connecting with and understanding another person on an extremely intimate level. Then accepting their submission and using that power to achieve an outcome. In a scene, the outcome might be as simple as sexual release or as complicated as helping them process hard emotions. In a relationship it is about guiding and training them while balancing their personal needs with my desires. These are not haphazard things that "just happen". They take research, planning, communication, continuous effort and more than a little inspiration.

I was raised religious, and while I no longer practice, I find that it created a strong need for traditional relationship roles. TPE, 24/7, male lead households, training a sub on domestic/sexual service and feminization/bimbofication/trophy are all important to me in a relationship. I also enjoy being the older partner and often date in an age gap, though that isn't a requirement.

Some of my favorite kinks and fetishes are listed below. If you have a favorite and it isn't listed - I'm probably into it.

• Impact play (floggers, spanking, whips, canes, etc.)
• Shibari & suspensions
• CNC/rape play/somnophilia/kidnapping
• Breath play (choking, bagging, gas masks, even waterboarding)
• Humiliation/degradation
• Edging, orgasm control/denial and forced orgasms
• Objectification
• All kinds of bondage (gags, mummification, cages, restraints, etc.)
• Needles & artistic cutting
• Mind fucks/predicaments/mental conditioning/emotional & mental sadism
• Long term captive/bondage sessions/interrogations

Outside of kink I have a strong career and more hobbies than time to explore them. I enjoy reading, cooking/grilling, video games, hikes, traveling and cons, home renovations, home brewing, working out and more. A few fun vanilla facts about me:

• Body picture on my profile, happy to share other pictures after chatting a bit.
• I enjoy hosting and chose my house with game nights and gatherings in mind. Just got back from GenCon so ask me about my new board games.
• I love to cook, grill and smoke. Happy to exchange favorite recipes or teach a sub how to cook. The fondue I made for a recent game day was very well received.
• One of my extra bedrooms is now a library. Currently working through the Shannara and Red Rising series with an occasional pause when I receive a new Sanderson book from the Kickstarter.
• DragonCon is one of my mandatory vacations every year. 17 days!
• Music tastes are wide ranging including rock, metal, EDM, rap, classical and more. This past year I saw Shinedown, Korn, 2Cellos, Three Days Grace and Trans-Siberian Orchestra in concert. Just got back from In This Moment and Motionless in White. Avenged Sevenfold is scheduled next.
• I love roller coasters and try to visit at least one park every year.

I'm interested in discussing BDSM or any of my non-kinky interests, one off or recurring play sessions/scenes or exploring a dynamic. It all depends on what you are looking for plus our communication and chemistry.

Good luck in your search, I hope you find what you are looking for.

Damon