This post is probably weird, but I've been thinking about it a lot.
I know women often have a pretty shitty time out there. There's no shortage of men being violent and abusive, or of women experiencing sexual assault and other kinds of abuse. And the truth is that most of the time, I'm part of the oblivious majority of men who doesn't really notice it and does very little to try and change it. I get the perks that come with being a man and just carry on with my life.
Some time ago, I had an experience on here with a woman who'd been sexually assaulted and was dealing with a lot of bitterness, frustration and anger. Part of the way she dealt with that was to take it out on me (consensually). In some ways, that was very eye-opening. She was not a typical "domme" type. What she really wanted was to hurt me. To humiliate me, to make me feel unsafe and doubt myself, to experience some of the feelings she had and to know that she could have power over a man too. It was incredibly intense, incredibly scary, and I have never done anything more rewarding.
So, I want to try again. I want to be your outlet. If you've been hurt, if you're frustrated and tired and angry about the things you've been put through, I want to give you an opportunity to fight back. That can mean whatever you want it to. It could mean just talking, it could mean demeaning or hurting me, it could mean being controlling and degrading. That's up to you. The important thing is that I want to let you be the one in charge - let you finally stop holding yourself back, and unleash everything you've had pent up inside.
If that sounds interesting to you, please send me a chat request!
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