TL;DR I’m an active NYC Dom seeking a local sub for a thrilling kinky relationship. Looking for a driven partner who is eager for challenges and willing to surrender to a trusted Dominant.

About me

Physically - I'm 25, single, Asian, active (5'8/~140 lbs), dark hair/brown eyes, vaccinated, non-smoker, clean/DDF. Happy to trade photos to verify.

Personality - I've been described as playful, caring, driven, patient, open-minded... and a lot more. My giving love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation. My receiving love languages are physical touch and quality time

Interests - Extroverted introvert (very social but also need my homebody time) . I've got a wide range of interests, including: chess, health (certified as a personal trainer), cooking, quantum mechanics, civic activism, investing, and machine learning. I also love trying new things! Recently, I’ve been exploring rock climbing and salsa.

Who and what I'm looking for

Dreams Do you consider yourself a driven, ambitious, and passionate woman? Do you have a desire to surrender control and trust someone to help you reach your full potential? Do you imagine a lifestyle where submission and D/s complement each other and provide structure, pleasure, and discipline to enhance the lives of both partners? Imagine a relationship where you can grow and succeed, hand in hand with a trusted partner who will challenge you and support you every step of the way. If this sounds like something you've been looking for, let's connect and explore the possibilities together.

My ideal partner shares my values and interests. Someone who loves learning new things, takes care of both their physical and mental health, has personal goals, values communication, empathy, generosity, loyalty, and honesty. And, of course, a kinky side ;)

Location - I would really like to find someone local to NYC or someone who visits the city frequently. I am not looking for an online-only or long-distance relationship.

Do you already recognize yourself and think we're compatible? Don't hesitate to PM me!

The kinky stuff

D/s dynamic - As your dominant partner, I'm here to bring comfort, excitement, and accountability to your life. I offer a nurturing, yet thrilling experience, always balancing the sweetness with firmness and respect. Communication is key in our relationship, making it not just a safe haven, but a truly unique bond between us. I value spending time together, whether in person or chatting regularly, as our relationship is a priority for me. I'm a firm believer in structure and rules, but only after establishing a clear connection, consent, and mutual respect. Let's delve deeper and see where this takes us.

Click on this: Good girl

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Just so you know: I'm open to every s-type identity (sub, little, middle, pet, brat, etc.).

My hard limits - ABDL, scat, blood

My kinks - Include impact play, bondage, some humiliation/degradation, training/tasks/protocols, among others…

If reading my 750 words has sparked your interest, don't hesitate to reach out and message me. Let's start a conversation and see where it takes us :)