Before I go into my small essay, I have herpes. If that's a deal breaker, I understand and have a good rest of your day. Now onto the post:

Hi. My name is JM and I'm a sub searching for a Dom. I am a receptionist at a funeral home, and I'm planning on furthering my studies to become a therapist. I work out pretty often, I've got an athletic build, but I am not thin. I'm south east Asian, but I was born in the states. I am fully aware there are more important things to life than love. I am learning more about myself and learning to care more about myself everyday. I think personal growth is one of the most important things people can care about.

But there's just been something internally gnawing at me regarding today's modern sphere of dating. Maybe it's the romantic in me wanting a love that feels like a Claude Monet painting, maybe it's the philosopher in me that wonders what love is, how is it felt, and can it be manifested in the physical world. I am looking for a person to love and cherish like your favorite book. I want to read your pages over and over again, each time learning something new, somehow, and maybe we can add some pages together. I don't want to call my love obsessive, but I think I am pretty demanding when it comes to affection, and I respond with just as much fervour.

I like BDSM because it speaks to an autistic and anxious part of my brain. Being a sub allows me to let my guard down and allow for vulnerability. It also provides me structure and a way for me to put in my excess energy that would otherwise manifest as anxiety. And I think people who are into BDSM have a better understanding of themselves. I'd rather you ask me about my kinks privately, but I'm into TPE, CNC, shibari, impact play, and breath play to name a few. Limits include watersports, diapers, scat, vomit, and anal.

I would prefer in the general area of southern California, but online is okay. I am looking for a relationship to turn monogamous but that comes with time. Let me get to know you.