I've identified as a switch for as long as I could remember and yet delving into my submissive side has always felt taboo or naturally didn't work with the relationships I became involved in. And that's a narrative I want to change. I'd like to genuinely experience what it's like slipping into subspace and letting go of control in a safe, accepting, & intimate environment.

So, who am I looking to serve? I'd prefer a Domme who's operating with gentle & sensual tendencies. Being playful, teasing, passionately rough/insatiable, lovingly sadistic are traits I tend to gravitate towards as well.

Vanilla life: I'm a lowkey soul that occasionally has moments of goofiness with a side of teasing sarcasm where I can fit it in. I unironically love pina coladas, getting caught in the rain, & time spent on the beach collecting shells. (Honestly any body of water is a good time for me). Outside of that I enjoy making playlists & dj mixes, studying spirituality & tarot, and recently got into making my own cologne from essential oils. I'm also still a bit of a gamer & enjoying delving into ttrpgs more. If you know some great foodie spots, are good with wordplay/alliteration, and/or like to dance you have a huge in.

Kinks I'd like to explore:

• Body worship (strap included)
• Queening/Facesitting
• Bondage
• Praise
• Praising Degradation (make me want to be those unspeakable things for you)
• Wax play
• Free Use
• Primal play/Wrestling
• Pegging
• Caregiving/Romance
• Fetish wear
• Erotic /Nuru massage

Limits:

• CBT
• raceplay
• Knifeplay
• Forced Feminization
• Forced Bi
• Scat
• Encasement/Chastity
• Beast/Vore/Excessive Gore

The lists aren't the full scope of everything and I'm of course willing to get out of my comfort zone to indulge in your kinks as well. My partner enjoying themselves is actually my biggest turn-on. I will vet and verify as necessary and would like someone who's willing to do the same.

P.s. While I love the chat interface, it hasn't been showing notifications for me lately. Please bear with me if you choose to use chat instead of DM.