I believe in traditional gender roles. Not for everyone, I understand that society is the way that it is, but for me and my personal relationships. I thrive as a 1950s housewife-type. Obedient, compliant and controlled. The “keep sweet and have dinner on the table at 6pm or you’ll be bent over it” type of life. The type of Dominant who has 24/7 control over me - where I go, who I see, who I speak with, what I wear, how to spend my money, everything. Who is well versed in 24/7 dynamics, freeuse and domestic discipline.

So, in summation, I am looking for an experienced lifestyle Dom who is looking to formally collar a submissive. One who knows what that entails and know what he requires of his girl. I will be asking a ton of questions haha. One who is strict, loving and kind. But most importantly funny. I like to laugh. Someone I get along with. I have multiple degrees, work full time, and am fully self sufficient. So my wanting this type of dynamic isn’t for a meal ticket or as a way of mooching off of someone, although I know many dynamics require the submissive to either tone down or give up working altogether. I am more than willing to do that (in time) as part of my submission.

Outside of dynamic related interests, I am interested in video games, hosting parties and game nights, and cooking and baking. I love to binge watch a good show on Netflix. I also love organization, homesteading, saving money and building personal wealth.

Notice I am not talking about sex much in this ad - sex is wonderful, but I am not chasing kink or kinky sex. Fortunately it’s super easy to obtain via Tinder or Fetlife these days! I really seek that type of 24/7 dynamic. I truly believe in it. Spankos are a huge plus, if you know, you know.

Physical stats: 28, white, long dark hair and eyes, 5’1/5’2ish. Chubby / Curvy.

Would prefer someone between 28-40/45ish.

Located in NY, upstate, willing to relocate within a reasonable distance. If you’re willing to relocate to me in NY that is also an option (although untraditional).

In-person only, I cannot and will not submit to an online Dom. Not interested in one-offs or hookups.

Please only message me if you are looking for something similar. :) if you message me just a couple words or something perverted I will not answer, thanks :)