Who am I?

I go by Ichiban. I’m an African American cis male who identifies as a submissive switch I’ve been in the kink community for about two years now. Looking for gentle Domme/sub dynamic that female led.

When did my kink experience start?

My kink experience started with attending 50 Shades of STFU where I participated as a service submissive. I was able to make connections with Mistress Viola and Princessa Natasha who run Sub Rosa. Most recently I’ve had the pleasure to attended multiple femdom boot camps as a demo bottom. Ive been spanked, wrestled, worshiped feet, sucked on Strapon and enjoyed it all.

What does your vanilla life look like?

Vanilla wise I work a standard 9-5. I have my own place with no roommates or children. When I’m not working I’m volunteering in the community, seeing movies with friends and connecting with family. I love gaming on my PS5 and I do read a variety of books from history, comics, sci-fi to motivational.

Tell us a bit about your kinky lifestyle. Do you go to fetish clubs and munches, are you in a 24/7 relationship...?

I attend 50 Shades of STFU. A femdom kink event in Portland every third Thursday of the month. Every so often I'm a demo bottom for fem tops at a femdom boot camp.

What BDSM skills do you have (i.e. rope bondage, play piercing, etc)?

Human Footstool, foot worship, CFNM, strapon worship, domestic services.

D/s: Dom/me or sub? Top or bottom? Caregiver or little? Owner or slave? Do you switch or are you unsure?

I identify as a submissive switch and/or pet.

What turns your kinky brain and body on?

What turns my kinky brain and body on is being in a female led gentle domme/sub relationship incorporating role reversal. My knees shake at the idea of being domesticated and dominated in the household by a wonderful woman. I preform the chores around the house and sit at her feet when needed. I'm a good boy who needs guidance, control and discipline from a strong woman. Therefore I blush at the idea of being leashed and collared as well. I would love to go on dates, attend kink events and vacation together while still maintaining our dynamic.

Kinks: Negotiating, domestic service, human furniture, affectionate domination, Clothed Female/Naked Male, leash and collar, foot worship, body worship, pussy/ass eating, spanking, orgasm control, strapon worship, pegging, butt plug, chastity, hand holding, lingerie, corner time, domestic discipline, crying, rewards, praise, objectification, pinching, predator/prey, panties, aftercare, safe words

Limits: wax, blood, scat, piss, needles, forced bisexuality, findom

If this resonates with you please let me know by telling me about yourself and the lifestyle you would want. Age 27 or up preferably. Local only.