TL/DR: Firm, loving and affectionate Dom looking for a straight, submissive, cis woman, to build an intense emotional connection and a lifetime kinky relationship with. READ THOROUGHLY

Must Haves:
• 27 – 35 years old
• CIS Woman
• Currently single
• Drug & Disease Free
• Emotional Connection before a Physical one.
• Full Time employment
• Gym goer
• Health Conscious
• Marriage & Children
• Monogamy
• Prioritize Mental Health

Kinks:
• Anal play (giving)
• Breeding
• Cum play (giving)
• DD/lg (Titles and loving nature)
• Feral/Predator: Hair Pulling, temp marks etc.
• Free-Use
• Manhandling
• Overstimulation (giving)
• Power Exchanges: ( wardrobe/grooming/orgasm control)
• Praise (giving)
• Restraints
• Sleep Play
• Spanking
• Throat & Face-fucking
• Training/Routines/Conditioning

Hard Limits:
• Age Play/Regression
• Animals
• Anything Illegal
• Blood
• Body mods
• Closed Fists/Heavy Impact Play
• Diapers
• Heavy Impact Play
• Most forms of Sadism
• Permanent Marks
• Pet Play
• Scat
• Slavery
• TPE
• Puke
• Urine

Me:

https://imgur.com/a/GsVeAWM

Hello there! My name is M. I am a 32-year-old man with fair skin, freckles, red hair & a red beard, and hazel eyes. Depending on the Doctor I am either 5’10” or 5’11”. They can never make up their mind! My weight fluctuates between 175 to 180 pounds. I have no piercings, tattoos, and I am drug and disease free.

I am a quiet and unassuming guy, with a very laid-back personality resulting in healthy mixture of confidence, assertiveness and wit. I am naturally curious, so I like to observe and listen before I speak. I am the kind of man that obsesses over his lawn, fixes the lawnmower, tinkers in the garage, and changes his own oil. Basically, the way our fathers were growing up. Think “Masculine Nerd”

I am a certified Introvert as I deeply value my family and a small, intimate circle of friends. I prefer having friends & family over for game night, movie night, or dinner/drinks at a nice quiet restaurant/bar in contrast to loud venues with large gatherings. I am a plain speaker as I do not like to mince words, but I try my hardest not to be blunt.

My primary love languages are Physical Touch & Quality Time. I am very touchy and affectionate in relationships, and I long to be around my Partner, even if we’re just sitting in the same room quietly doing separate things.

The one thing I have always been 100% sure of is my desire to have a wife and children. I am finally at a point in my life where I feel ready, and I am looking for a woman that wants the same in the next couple of years.

Politically, I am an Independent. Both parties are too extreme for me. If it helps paint a clearer picture: pro-Gun, pro MJ legalization, pro reproductive rights etc. etc. You get the idea.

I am not a deeply religious man. Spiritual at best.

I have a successful career, I love projects and staying busy, professionally and personally. I thrive on organization and routines, so I consider myself a pretty regimented guy. I have my own home, and I am financially stable. I finished my MBA in 12/22. I currently work nights Wednesday through Saturday. I will not work nights forever, but I also do not have a firm end date. It is just part of my career journey.

My experience extends to about 4.5 years. 2 LTR's and a couple of play partners. That being said, I don't consider myself a pro, nor do I consider myself a novice. I still have a lot to learn, and I would love to share new experiences with my sub as we both learn and grow. I welcome people of all experience levels.

My Hobbies:
• Art: Abstract, minimalism, cubism.
• Baseball (#Astros),
• Reading (Almost any subject),
• Camping/Hiking (Been to Big Bend, the Grand Canyon, Zion and Bryce Canyon this year)
• Comics (Batman),
• Cooking
• Fishing
• Home Improvement/DIY: (I'm both handy and handsome. ;)
• Hunting
• Traveling (Finally going to Scotland in October!!!)
• Video Games (PS5/PC),
• Whiskey
• Wine (Reds > Whites)
• Weight lifting. (Four days a week.)
• Yoga. (Teach me!)

You:

You are a strong, capable, ambitious & independent woman. But, you have a secret. You are dying to submit and relinquish control in trusted hands and be your Daddy’s perfect good girl. You crave to be with, and submit to, a trusted partner who will train you, challenge you, and help you succeed in everything you desire from life through the care, safety, structure, pleasure, discipline of a wholesome and loving D/s relationship. You desire to be owned (in a loving & nurturing sense), trained, used thoroughly & regularly.

The world sees a strong, independent lady, only I get the privilege and experience of knowing what a submissive & kinky good girl you really are.

Physical attraction is not everything, but it does play an important first step. I am not looking for, or expecting, a woman with super model looks and a pro athlete physique (as I am neither of those myself) but you should prioritize your mental & physical health (nutrition/physically active/DDF/non-smoking) and be doing something to accelerate your heart rate 4 times a week. I have always been attracted to shorter women with a slim/petite/slender build. They are so much easier to manhandle how I want, since I am not an overly large man myself.

Us:

I am NOT looking for a TPE dynamic, a slave, a service sub or a Trad wife. I want you to maintain your independence around work, family, social circles etc.

I want to be your catharsis, comfort, accountability and pleasure rolled into one. Nurturing, supportive & sweet, yet firm & dominant. I will never demand your submission, I am patient, willing & able to earn your submission, as well as your trust and consent.

I am a certified pleasure Dom. My end goal is getting lost in each other for hours on end, enjoying pure hedonistic euphoria. I have a High sex drive, so you can expect this regularly. I am not much of a sadist. Inflicting pain does nothing for me, aside from spankings (even good girls need Daddy’s handprint on their ass). I am open to other forms of non-intense pain, but that would take some time and plenty of discussion, largely because of my upbringing.

When I am not thoroughly using you, or attempting to exceed my latest record of how many times I can make you cum, I am a loving and affectionate Dom. I very much enjoy and crave the aspects of a vanilla relationship as well. I love aftercare, providing non sexual intimacy and general affection. I am a Huge cuddle slut and a certified Big Spoon.

Grocery store trips, dog walks, chore sharing, date night, cuddles, forehead kisses, you wash I dry, laundry folding and random flowers are all forms of non-sexual intimacy that I crave and adore. I love being silly with my Partner, telling jokes and arguing over trivial things like dinner, paint colors etc. You are a priority to me, just as I want to be a priority for you. I am a possessive, affectionate, and aggressive lover. D/s is more than just sex for me, it's a lifestyle consisting of love, devotion, discipline, accountability and support. The sex is just the fun part.

The one constant is that I am big on communication and care, making our relationship not just a safe-space, but something unique to us. You are a priority for me, just as I want to be for you. That means I would like to talk regularly and spend time together. I will never demand your submission; I understand that I must earn it.

Conclusion:

If you expect me to “Dom” you right away, then we are not the best match. If you are looking for an organic connection, coupled with an intense emotional connection, falling in love, and a kinky as fuck best friend for life I would love to hear from you:

• A bio about yourself
• A detailed physical description. A clear & well lit, full body pic would be appreciated.
• Any pressing questions you have for me.
• Anything else you feel is relevant.

You should be prepared to have a brief, but upfront, conversation early on about kinks, limits, and expectations just to establish a certain level of compatibility. Once established, I would like to move to a different platform. Reddit chat is super buggy. With that in mind I don’t want to text aimlessly for weeks on end either, so you should be comfortable with phone & video calls relatively quick and a “sooner” than “later” plan to meet in person to establish interpersonal chemistry.

Thank you so much for your time, and best of luck.

-M