Hi, thanks for reading my post! I am a Dom here looking for his sub.

About me: 5'10", 165 lbs, white, fit, shaved head

Body pic of me: https://i.imgur.com/V20XSag.jpg

Will share face pics and more when as we connect

Location: Currently in southern Orange County, but can travel to SD or LA. It's nice to be right in the middle of everything in SoCal.

Looking for: A woman, aged anywhere from 33-47 that is submissive and looking for a Dom partner to see where it goes. Want a monogamous relationship with the intention of going long term and beyond. This takes time, so initially we would chat, get to know each other, meet publicly to see if we vibe, and then take it from there. If you are poly, or partnered, I am not interested. I am looking to start a genuine relationship with a submissive woman with just the two of us.

I had success from this subreddit about 10 years ago, and would like to give it another try. Would prefer a woman that is a sub. Kinks can evolve to your liking. A BDSM relationship is only true to each other if the sub is respected, that means your limits would be very much a rule of law. When we start to talk, please have your limits and kinks ready so we can set expectations if we do start to like each other.

My Interests: I am very much into restraint and being verbal. I enjoy firm and hard sex, anal sex (giving), spanking, light choking, kissing, biting, and more. I believe in aftercare after a session is completed. Not all of this is required, if you have a limit that is affected by something listed above, then it will not be performed. Respect is the name of the game.

My life arrangement: I am divorced and have no children. I have a successful career and have my own spot. I enjoy my work and my career continues to excel. I love techie things as I work in IT as a profession. I tend to be nerdy, but have been described as being charismatic and having a good sense of humor. I dabble in games from time to time but do not play them very often, sometimes with friends I grew up with from time to time. I enjoy mixing music and, hitting the gym or going out for a run. I make work out every day as I feel fitness is very important to me. Love nature, camping, and hiking. I feel family is important, so I try to spend time with my family when I can.

If this sounds like you, send me a message and lets see if we can start something together!