Hey, I'm James!

I have a bit of an unusual and embarrassing request, so bare with me...

I suffer with a bit of ED and premature ejaculation. I can still get hard, but unless I'm stroking I might lose my erection (and get it back later). When I'm fully erect I tend to cum really fast (too fast!) because the head of my uncircumcised penis becomes very sensitive (at some point it feels like a gentle tap of my finger on the head will make me blow).

This has been a source of anxiety and insecurity for me throughout my life. It's been the main reason I tend to avoid trying for a relationship or hookups. But I want to change that. I want to learn to get better. Will you help me please?

About me

I'm a professional and work in tech. I'm more of an introvert/homebody in general, but I do enjoy being in nature, going on walks, and exploring cities. I have a lot of hobbies like programming, playing piano, drawing, photography, making music, gaming, and having deep conversations about various random topics.

Physically, I'm 6'2", 180lbs, caucasian, hairy, bald/bearded, brown hair/eyes, fairly slim but not muscular, 6" uncut. I've been told I have really nice hands and a nice voice. I love showing off so I'd be happy to share pics privately so you can decide if I'm worthy of serving you. I'll never send unsolicited pics.

What I'm looking for

Ideally I'd love to form a connection with you and play/chat regularly. But I'm also happy if this is just a one time thing. The main thing I want is that we give each other our undivided attention while we play. Communication is really important to me, and I love talking about kink and non-kink stuff equally.

I like gentle loving Mommy Dommes, but I also enjoy being degraded/humiliated too. So I will adapt to your preferred style. Being called a "good boy" makes me melt.

Since my ED problems are half psychological, I'm looking for a Domme that can provide a nice safe space where consent and communication are ingrained and integral. Even though I like being degraded a little bit during play, I can get a little emotional about it so I'd love a Domme that is able to flip that switch and move to aftercare when needed. I'm not looking to be abused or ridiculed for my condition.

Logistics

I'd like to do video calls (on TG) with you where you can watch me masturbate (and guide me). I want to practice being comfortable while soft and hard around you.

I can also start fully clothed and you can control me and undress me like I'm your personal fuck doll. Let me know what you crave and I will oblige.

I'm very vocal and I love moaning and talking dirty while I masturbate, if you give me permission.

I won't cum unless you tell me to. At least.. I'll try my best, sometimes I can't hold it.

I'm a visual person and I get off on seeing/hearing you too, but I don't expect anything from you, that's completely your decision. I would like to hear your voice at least though, because it's more immersive to me.

I'm really easy to please. I have a foot fetish, and I could cum simply by looking at your feet, without you having to do anything else. I know I haven't earned that privilege yet, but I just wanted you to know what kind of power you'll have over me.

I'm happy to do this online only, but if you're in Montreal and we end up clicking, I'd also be open to meeting up and playing in person.

What's in it for you?

Ideally you're the kind of Domme who gets off on watching/controlling me while I stroke and moan for you. But I also understand that what I'm asking for is a lot, and it seems a little selfish and centered on me. I even feel a little guilty writing this post because I feel like I'm being too demanding, and I apologize.

But let me be clear, I'm a selfless submissive pleaser first and foremost! Your pleasure is my pleasure. I love to please and worship and make my Domme happy.

I will be eternally grateful if you help me last longer! Let me serve you... please? I will happily be your slave once I enter my subspace.

Kinks

Foot worship, armpit worship, spit play, sweat play, body sniffing, body hair worship, pussy/ass worship, nipple sucking, giving massages, cuddling, eye contact, being held, praise/degradation balance, food play, serving you, being ignored/denied, orgasm control, premature ejaculation appreciation, dildo/strap-on/cucumber sucking, hearing/watching you piss/fart/poo (I know this isn't for everyone), humiliation, spanking.

Limits

Violence, blood, extreme pain, sounding, pegging (for medical reasons), age play.

I'm very open-minded and I love trying new things, so please let me know if you have any kinks I haven't mentioned that you'd like to try with me.

Get in touch

If you're interested please send me a chat and tell me a little about yourself and what you like/dislike! I'd love to get to know you and see if we click.

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Eagerly awaiting,

James. 💓