This meeting someone new, it can be daunting, can't it? There are all these different things I'm immediately wondering. Will our families get along? Will we mesh morally? Can you take a spanking and fill out a schoolgirl uniform the way I like? Will we like the same bands and shows? Is it too early to wonder about some of these things? Probably, we haven't even met yet. Hello.

While the relationship hopefully resulting from this will heavily feature BDSM, I think we can agree it's more important for the fundamentals to be right first if we're thinking long term. And I am. So, have an info dump about your potential next to help you decide if you want to expand upon the little nugget of naughty toward the end.

About me: Single and looking to start something serious. I am open to long distance for a little while, with the understanding that we close the gap before too long. And if at a distance, I want to fall asleep together on Discord with you, take in shows and movies together, share thoughts and make plans. Down the line, I want to spoon by the fire with you while our kids sleep upstairs.

My father is the stern old white guy I am becoming more like every day, and my mother is a short pretty Asian lady. So I'm mixed and am often mistaken for Native, Hispanic or on my very good days, Keanu. I am also totally blind, which has about as much to do with who I am as a person as my race does. But it rarely comes up in conversation so if I don't say it now I'd more than likely forget to bring it up at all. Then we'd meet up for the first time and you'd be like "Who dat guy wit' da stick?" Because for some reason that's how you talk in this hypothetical scenario. That said I am quite independent--I work a steady 9-5, go out on my own and have lived on my own since graduating high school without starving to death or burning the house down.

I also have a twelve-year-old daughter. She lives out of state with her mother, though we spend holidays and things together (My daughter and I, not my ex and I, that'd be weird).

My free time when not lazing about is spent playing guitar, doing standup comedy and gaming. D&D, Vampire the Masquerade and textbased MUDs primarily, though I will destroy you with Liu Kang on Mortal Kombat X, as I'm cheap as hell with him. Similarly with any of the Law family on Tekken. When it comes to books, shows and movies, I tend toward things within the comedy, horror, scifi/fantasy and Urban Fantasy genres. I also make audio dramas for youtube. Yes, I am a geek and homebody. Do you do anything artsy and creative? If it's in the visual medium I hope you don't mind describing your work to me. If you sing or play an instrument, expect me to request demonstrations and/or colaborations from time to time.

Professionally I'm in manufacturing, voice acting and writing. When finances and other circumstances allow, I plan to open the best cafe and tabletop gaming lounge the world has ever seen.

I am right-leaning, just so you know what you could be getting into, girl currently living in our enlightened and clearly sain and successful age. Proud military brat, classical Western values despite a mildly goth aesthetic and certain tastes and interests slightly off the beaten path. I am fiercely monogamous, authoritative and well-prepared to protect, provide for, love and when necessary, guide and correct you. What I expect in return is your love, trust, submission and obedience. In short, just be a good girl for me and I will take care of you always.

Musically speaking, I love the country my parents played when I was a kid, the pop punk and alt rock I discovered as an angsty goth teen, the different flavors of metal I found in college, and the oldies that oddly keep popping up in my Spotify recommendations. Do you have something different you'd like to show me? Or even just more of the same?

I've been writing, scrapping and re-writing this section for like half an hour now. Usually when I describe my sexual proclivities, it's through a scattered series of vague, nonspecific quips in the presence of close friends. You should know future ladyfriend, I'm doing this for you. So, I am definitely more dominant. Reasonably quick to praise or degrade, spank or caress, bite or kiss, praise or punish depending on a combination of my mood and your behavior. One of my greatest joys is provoking responses from you. Are you shy and given to breathless little yelps and squeaks? Do you sing your pleasure out, loud and helpless to contain it? Whatever your mode of expression, I'm sure it will be just the thing to savor. Sometimes I will want to strip you to the skin and be mean to you, other times I will want nothing more than to pet your butt and feed you oreos.

There is much more, but I think that's enough revealing smut for the time being. The rest you can learn the organic way should we make it to the boudoir.

That was a lot about me, let's talk briefly about you. You can drive, right? I can't for obvious reasons and Uber gets freaking expensive after a little bit. I might need to borrow your eyes from time to time. "What does this say? How's the weather looking? Is this Otter Pop blue or purple?" You understand. Also, are you pretty? Do you take care of yourself? I'm no chiseled 10 by any means, but I do put forth effort to make myself pleasant to see and be with. I would like the same from you.

Whew, that was a lot! If you made it through all that and think I might be what you're looking for and vice versa, I invite you to get in touch. Use the message feature please, if you send a chat I will never see it and we will both grow old and die wondering what might have been. Tell me about yourself. Also be ready to move off Reddit if we get along well. I am very communicative and would love to talk to you. And just for being a good sport in reading everything, here's a little sample of my speaking voice. https://soundgasm.net/u/VulpineScott/I-made-this-for-you

Here's what I look like on an average workday. https://imgur.com/a/Ni0gLMa

Here's what I look like when being mischievous out on the town https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iftDkDgKMOg

Best of luck in your search.