I woke up to a dream this morning. He firmly held me down by the throat while he claimed me, the intensity of his eyes staring into mine was hypnotizing. Even the rest of my days wouldn’t have been enough time with this man. My love. My life.

My communication preferences are direct. In order to have your needs met you have to be able to express them, you know? I want people to be happy, but I’m not a mind reader and I can’t meet you there if I don’t know what it is that makes you happy.

I consider myself a sex Gremlin. I’m into free use, primal, age play (middle), fear play, and breeding. You’ll know I’m having fun of I’m hyperventilating. Trust, however, is important. This isn’t something I can engage in with a partner who doesn’t show thought, consideration, and respect.

A lot of my time is taken up by my online kink community. They are my world. I love these wholesome, insane people with my whole heart and I’d be overjoyed if you loved them too.

Open to online to start but would want to eventually move to in person. A cat person would probably be happiest with me, as I have a very kittenish personality. I’m needy. I’ll take as much time as you’re willing to give, but I also need and crave my own space. If I’m starting to feel neglected I will tell you. I hope you’d do the same.

I primarily play dead by Daylight, Sea of Thieves, and Don’t Starve Together (almost out of winter for the first time!). Would you like to get to know each other over VC and Gomoku?

Confidence is sexy. Please don’t confuse that with arrogance. Knowing who you are, being secure in that, and still considering other points of view or knowing you’re fallible is… Oof. Caution and self-awareness makes me melt.

I’m a returning college student working on a psychology degree. My plan is to work as a grief counselor and death doula. I can speak more on this if needed but doing meaningful work, building community, and acts of service are all very important to me.

If you feel like reaching out please tell me a bit about yourself (including age and location) and what you view is the essence of a healthy relationship. What is your dominance style? What are you looking for in a submissive? I also encourage you to read my post history to get a better idea of who I am and how I think. I’ll be doing the same for you, and if you have no (or questionable) history I might not reply.