Well Hello there! Good evening and I hope that your day went well. I’m a Soft Daddy and a very warm type of Caregiver. I’m very Demisexual and have found that the closeness, bond of a Cgl dynamic to be the most fulfilling type of relationship for me, so I have a lot of passion for Cgl.

What being a soft Soft Daddy means is that I will talk to you like you are on my level, like we are friends first and foremost. I’ll go those extra miles to make you feel safe and we can often be lighthearted. I’m very big on emotional connection and bonding together. I’m very big on texting often, calling you whenever we can, and being a shoulder for you, being your listener. The easiest way I can describe it is instead of arrogant dominance where I just show up expecting things from you, my dominance comes out more in my nurturing and overbearing nature. I’ll want to protect you and make you feel like you are mine, if it gets to that point.

What being Soft Daddy does not mean is that I’m a pushover, not kinky, asexual etc. I’m very demisexual, so once I click with my little and we are comfortable, I’m actually quite needy, emotionally, sexually etc. I want to be bonding and stimulating each other often. So to put a blanket term on what kinds of kinks I’m into, I like kinks that involve ownership, intimacy like doing things with one another we wouldn’t otherwise feel comfortable doing without our bond etc. fully exploring one another, and I prioritize validation around the clock, not ~just~ as aftercare.

A little bit about me: I’m 28, white, 6’1 & kinda dad bod but I work in Healthcare so I’m getting pretty tone from how physically demanding my job is. I like spooky things / witchy things and I’d describe myself as Alt. I tend to get along well with people are who are neurodivergent, like Bpd, autism, adhd, anxiety. I’m very loyal and am craving the same if we are to get serious together.

If this post intrigues you, I’d love to hear from you.